"Be yourself, girls like that"?

Question

That statement is full of crap. Help?

Answer 1

being yourself will work if you are the kind of guy they like anyway. If you are not the kind of guy they like, being yourself won't help. So yes, its pretty much crap. Looks, money, charisma, status all work better than just being yourself, especially if you don't have those things going for you.

Answer 2

Dude, that only works if they can smell money in you. The best and only way any girl will want you is to be a complete ******. Be a complete jerk and play like you are not interested or have seen "better". When you treat girls like crap, they want you more. They think they will be the girl who "change" this guy from a bad guy to a nice guy. Trust me man, you have to be the irresponsible, ******, jerk that gets girls all wet. Treat them like second class but NO physical violence because it will never get you any ***. Get to know your inner ****** and make it come out. Good luck young Jedi.

Answer 3

It's not full of crap..girls like honest guys who are genuine and charming. If a girl doesent like u for who u are then u shouldn't like her or pretend to be someone else just to make her happy. Be yourself.

Answer 4

You are right my man..Women are really screwed up creatures. They constantly say one thing and do another. Here is what you need to do:

1. Look up Doc Love on the net and read his articles and even purchase The System. I guarantee that this will work
2. Start reading articles on askmen.com

You see there probably nothing wrong with you except you have fallen victim to the typical female BS about what women want.

A wise man one said "You can always tell when a woman is lying about what she wants: Her lips are moving"

Also whatever you do DON'T I repeat DON'T ever take a woman's advice on how to treat women unless you want to fail with the opposite sex.

Answer 5

Yes, be natural, be confident, be yourself. Think that applies to everyone really. Having said that, you should always try to change yourself for the better. If a girl doesn't like something abt you, try to work out if its something that people in general don't like, in which case you should change it.

Answer 6

Okay, here's the fuller extended dance-mix version.

Be yourself. You can't sustain the pretense of being someone else. Anyone who's worth your time will like the genuine you. Sure, there are hotties out there who won't like what you're offering, but be thankful that they shoot you down immediately. It leaves you free to find your happiness with someone better suited.

Answer 7

be yourself, not all girls like that but you'll be happier when you find one that does appreciate it. It is really crap when you pretend to be something ur not then you HAVE to keep it up because people expect you to.

Answer 8

that is not ful of crap girls really do like it if the guys are themselfs. plus if u pretend u are some sucessful rich guy, when they find out your not, bad things are going to happen

Answer 9

depends on what you deem is appropriate conduct. If you treat yourself and your company with respect, get to know the lady you are with and what are her likes and dislikes maybe you can make a better judgement as to your mutual compatibility.

Answer 10

NO! its a true statement! girls like honest guyz who are themselves and dont worry about what other ppl think! we like it when guyz act the same all the time, no matter who they're around! 'cuz some guyz act one way in front of their friends and another way when its just you and them! wierd! but they do it! but, we like it when guyz are themselves! it shows us that they are mature, independant, and willing to show their true feelings towards us!