I recently ended a 3 year relationship that was a very difficult decision. It wasn't the best or worst of relationship but left me emotionally damaged none the less. I have recently met a great guy that treat me like a queen and it scares the **** out of me.
2006-12-31 09:37:58 · 4 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy the attention while you can. However, after just recently ending a 3 year relationship, you may not be ready to give 100% of yourself to another relationship especially if you were emotionally damaged. Keep things casual, not so serious, and enjoy each other's company. Also, balance time with the new guy, your friends, and yourself.
Find yourself again, learn from past mistakes and take some time to make yourself wiser for the next relationship. Know what you want and what you will not tolerate and stick to your guns. No relationship is worth compromising yourself or what you need to be completely happy.
2006-12-31 09:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyedann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been together for 10 years, we have been married for almost 3 years coming up in February. I love our relationship. We are both 46 and come from previous marriages. we kept our relationship in the beginning as friends. we did everything together like friends do. we have kept our relationship grounded this way. we are very happily married and very much opposites. We never treat each other badly. We respect, honor and the whole nine yards. The way to keep your relationship grounded is to listen, and compromise..Don't dive into sex that will kill a relationship fast. Get to know that person first. So many times people dive into the sexual attraction part of a relationship first only to find out later down the line they really know nothing about the person they are with or find out that the only thing they have in common is sex. Good-luck hope my rambling answer helped you. :)
2006-12-31 18:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slowly. Sounds like you're still a bit wounded. We all go through this. Just be sure that the new relationship is not a rebound one. They say that time heals all wounds, and this is true, even in relationships. There will be some scars, but allow yourself time to fully heal. I hope this helps.
2006-12-31 17:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. be a spinster.
2006-12-31 17:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by 41 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋