My b/f and I were having some problems and he said we should take a break. I was at a very close guy friend's house and we were watching TV. I fell asleep in is arms(I had just taken home third in our conference/state finals and was exhausted) He is friends with my friend too. He called me the next day apologizing and I forgave him since he truly meant it and had changed.
Do I tell him?? It was innocent but a friend of mine had this happen and her b/f left her.
Do I tell or ask my guy friend to keep it quiet?? If I tell will he expect me to not do it again??
2006-12-31 09:08:57 · 10 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't feel bad b/c nothing happened.
What do I do??
2006-12-31 09:11:36 · update #1
I may or may not have gone past "just friends" with the guy but didn't have sex.
What do I do?
2006-12-31 09:12:25 · update #2
Obviously, if your asking the question, you feel guilty about it. In which case, yes it was cheating and yes you need to tell him.
2006-12-31 09:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by GuZZiZZit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the intent and what happened, plus add in that you and your boyfriend are taking a "break" from each other; I would not consider it cheating. The only reason it is questionable is because it was another guy. What if it had been another girl, like maybe your mom?
I would not tell your boyfriend. You did nothing wrong, but in his mind, he may assume you did. And, as for your guy friend, I would talk to him about the incident. He may see it the same way you did, as something innocent, but you need to make it clear to him before he goes around saying something that could make it sound worse than it is.
2006-12-31 09:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey do not tell him...seriously! You didnt do anything, and to be completely honest in the end you will be the only one to look bad if you do! They will still be friends and you will be thrown to the sharks, thats how the world works. EXAMPLE, husband cheats on the wife, you tell the wife, she fights with the husband, ultimatly forgives him, and he doesnt want you two to be friends anymore!!!
2006-12-31 09:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by JDream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell the truth. If you don't, it could come up in the future and he would be really hurt. If you tell him and he leaves, do you really want someone that doesn't trust you and the fact you told him nothing happened? A good relationship is based on trust...
2006-12-31 09:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nevada Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will keep it quite dont worry. Now just try to talk to your bf and see if he wants to break up. that is the problem.
Cheating is when a girl has a(or a guy has a gf) and the girl/or guy is caught with another girl or guy
2006-12-31 09:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing happened it's not cheating, besides you two were taking a break and even if you tell him he may get upset anway over nothing. Just leave it alone.
2006-12-31 09:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell him. Anything that happened during the break that he wanted is not his business. In any case, you were not cheating.
2006-12-31 09:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are young it was not cheating.When you are married it is cheating till then it is just part of life.
2006-12-31 09:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you didn't do anything wrong to tell him about and even if you had you don't tell because it's selfish to do :) :) :)
2006-12-31 09:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything---but I still wouldn't mention it because he probably wouldn't understand.
2006-12-31 09:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋