I'm in a situation right now that the guy wants to call Friends with Benefits but it seems like he is acting like more. Like, sleeping over and cuddling, wanting me to sleep over, getting jealous when my ex-bf calls, not wanting to use condoms even though we talked about it and agreed we should. What's the deal??? Is he confused or what??
2006-12-31 09:06:44 · 18 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems to want you all for himself yet doesn't want to deal with the whole "relationship" stuff.
2006-12-31 09:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Friends with Benefits does not usually include as one of it's benefits children or unnecessary use of RU 486 where some decent behavior might be a better idea.
Have your boyfriend figure out what he wants or be honest enought to tell you he wants more than FwB, commit or not none of this in the middle stuff.
This is how single mothers get that way!
Otherwise, you need to have a little more spine/self-respect for yourself. If he doesn't "play" by the rules then the game is off!
2006-12-31 09:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had plenty..
there easy
just call when you want to hang out and most likely end up sleeping togeather
meet once a week or so... not an everyday thing
sleeping over is ok but everything is kinda easy going
you can do everything that you would when dating just keep the time spent togeather to more of a minimum
don't get involved with eachothers circle of friends
don't ask to many personal questions, keep it all in the present time
it's a lot easier if your more mature
2006-12-31 09:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-15 12:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to figure out this whole "friends with benefits" thing.
Is this a polite way of saying "I want to get laid whenever I want without the emotional ties or responsibility of a loving relationship"?
No wonder we have so many single parents leeching the resources out of this country.
Try "Self Control". It's much easier to understand.
2006-12-31 09:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with YOU?I have many friends but I don't sleep with them..When you have crossed the line from a friendship to the bed it's not a friendship anymore it's SEX then.If you want this person to be your friend then there is no such thing as "Benifits"your ither friends or Lovers..You have to decide which is which.....Friends/boyfriend oh some people say that you have to be friends but beleive me it changes to possesion after you have slept with that person.
2006-12-31 09:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, he is just messing with you. From my own personal experience with "friends with benefits", it just doesn't work. There is no way you can be just friends with someone you become intimate with, NO WAY.
Either he wants to be with you or not.
And if he doesn't want to be with you, get out of this unhealthy situation as soon as possible, it won't work and someone will end up really hurt in the end.
Good luck.
2006-12-31 09:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by honestly sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he IS confused! friends with benefits is just that, you stay like you were before you started having sex, except, now, of course, you get to have SEXXX!!! YAAAAY!!! sounds to me like he just wants you to be his girlfriend, without saying it OR being the boyfriend at the same time. get away from him, it sounds like trouble in the very near future to me, if you start sleeping with him. ME, on the other hand, knows how to have a friends with benefits friendship, so if you need a new friend............
2006-12-31 09:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by berkly m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel about this situation. If you are only friends, then you are free to find someone who loves you. If you are more than friends, than let's call this a real relationship.
2006-12-31 09:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's trying to push for more, having a friends with benefits is supose to be rule free and awesome no attachments fun sex. I'd keep him just a friends length or else you are headed for trouble
2006-12-31 09:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by smurf_punky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋