I have a friend who turned her back on me after my boyfriend and I broke up. first of all I was friend with this girl first before my bf was. My boyfriend wouldn't have met this girl if it weren't for me. anyways, after my boyfriend and i broke up, I called this girl up to to get some comfort cuz i needed to talk to someone to talk to, I was feeling very depressed at that time. After that conversation, I never heard from this girl again after calling her numerous times. I found out that this girl had been talking to my ex...on the phone..at school (since they both go to the same school together). I don't care that they talk together, my thing is that she shouldn't have taken his side completely and jsut turned her back on me! should i confront her or just forget that she was ever my friend?
2006-12-31 09:05:59 · 21 answers · asked by College GurL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That happened to me when I was in high school. My first true love broke my heart, and my best friend ignored me when I needed her most. Chances are, she has a crush on your ex, and is hoping to get together with him. That's what my ex best-friend wanted, only she was way too homely for him to ever consider going out with her.
Chalk her up as a lost friend. If you really need her to be there for you and she's not, she's not a true friend, and she's certainly not worth your time or effort.
2006-12-31 09:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by jujsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the look of it sweetie your friend never was your friend.She had the hots for your Bf even when you hadnt broken up and seized the oppurtunity when you did.Now its for you to show some self respect and confront her and tell her in no uncertain terms that the two of them deserve each other!The fact that she is not ansewring your calls is proof enough that she is guilty at heart and doesnt want to face you,just leave a message on her answering machine or something.After that just forget about both of them and move on!
Happy New Year
2006-12-31 17:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by ytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she took his side? Always speak to the person who either did you wrong. Never relay on second hand information. Horse's mouth! Boyfriend and girlfriends come and go. It is the way it is until you find the right person for you. It is probably a good thing that this happened, you do find out about people. Right?
2006-12-31 17:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by harold f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she took the advantage when she heard you 2 broke up she wanted him from the beginning and she already has left the friendship. doesnt sound to me that you lost much in either of them. you'll find some one you care about more not just a bf but a friend too.
2006-12-31 19:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take this as a chance of knowing what this so call friend of yours is really like.
Don't be bother with this kind of person who try to steal your bf, she doesn't worth the trouble.
2006-12-31 17:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by dories 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a true friend.
If she dates him she broke the girlfriend code,
" Never date a Girlfriends Ex Boyfriend ".
2006-12-31 17:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her. Since your not really mad then just call her up, meet her for lunch and tell her how ya feel. Hopefully she understands cause that was a Fu*ked up thing to do to you. But hope all things work out!
2006-12-31 17:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by soul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is cold to you because she is pursuing him. If she and your ex together is something you are okay with and you could hang with them if they got together then tell her this. If you can't stand the idea, then move on.
2006-12-31 17:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by non_apologetic_american 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has already abandoned the friendship. Best thing for you to do is move on.
Besides, you deserve better. Yech.
2006-12-31 17:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tellyou this but seems to me she has had her eye on him .she likes him thats way sheis not talking to you .for get a bout them find a new friend and a new boy friend you don,t need them.
2006-12-31 17:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by judy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋