well i have a bf and he lives in my apartment with me at colgate and he is going to to transfer to Harford law school and has promised me he will come to colgate as much as he can and will call me like all the time and i am not sure this relationship will work and we have been dating for over 5 years to New Years Eve wich is today and i get very upset when he is not around to make me happy. So he is leaving after christmas break so i will be a wreak afrer he leaves.
so should i stay and try to keep th relationship going or
guy someone new until he comes back because this guy asked me out on a date yesterday.
so should i and why??!!
2006-12-31 09:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
long distance relationships are not healthy
chances of meeting ppl you like are likely by 100%
2006-12-31 09:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in college and have been dating this guy for 5 years, then you have 'probably' not dated a whole lot of other young men. It is rather telling that the guy is not gone yet and you are thinking of accepting a date with someone else. I think you are probably hoping that we will all say to find someone else - aren't you? If that is what you are really hoping that everyone will say, then that is what your heart is telling you to do. If you really love this guy then time will tell and you will end up together again.
2006-12-31 17:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give the relationship a chance and try to keep it good with him being so far. Although, its not going to be easy, especially if both of you are going to be busy with school and such. Its not impossible but if you two really care about each other, it will work out.
Dont start looking for other options but it seems that if you really did want to make the realtionship work out, you wouldnt be considering to go out with another guy already.Just my 2 cents on it.
2006-12-31 17:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I dated for 3 years and then we did a long distance relationship for 3 years before we got married. I thank that a long distance relationship either kills you or makes you stronger. Communication is key to any good relationship and a long distance relationship forces you to communicate. Give the long distance relationship a shot and if it works it works. You have to honestly try for it to work however.
2006-12-31 17:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lbon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hypothetically it can, but really no.
you cant keep tabs on him and he cant keep tabs on you.
its like you see a guy, your boyfriend is not even in the city, so why not fool around a little. probably more likely for a guy to do this than for a girl i suppose. and, communication is usuallyl bad.....i would advise against it...ive tried. and you never know what is going on with the other.
2006-12-31 17:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by MW saved my life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only if you can spell it correctly and not use run-on sentences...
2006-12-31 17:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years...it will take to forget him..
2006-12-31 17:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by copter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋