...that she has a bit of a 'feminine odor' problem? I don't want to embarass her or hurt her feelings, but going down has gotten kind of rough......
2006-12-31 09:01:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..why the thumbs down?
2006-12-31 09:04:42 · update #1
maybe I should clarify- she's not driving away the neighbors or making small children cry, it's not THAT bad! I just want to be able to kiss her down there without flinching....
2006-12-31 09:07:06 · update #2
SHE MIGHT HAVE A MEDICAL PROBLEM???? YES U CAN TELL HER, JUST SAY BABE IT'S KINDA FUNKY DOWN THERE AND COULD U WASH UP SO I CAN ENJOY MY TRIP DOWNTOWN.
2006-12-31 09:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I usually have a shower b4 intimacies. You could make it a feature and see if washing each other in bath or shower is a turn on. I know of others who do it. Otherwise I agree that some soap products or essencial oils can be good in a relationship. Don't be stupid,be tactful and don't bring it out b4 Sex. Yes there could be infections but whichever way you tackle it, be gentle and tactful. Try the oils and see if there is still an odor.
2006-12-31 17:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she's aware, for health reasons. Sometimes women get infections from changes in their pH balance or bacterias that cause an odor, amongst other symptoms. They can be quickly and easily treated by a prescription medication.
If you wanna break it to her gently, tell her it's just a "slight" odor and she may not be aware but since you're the only one right up in it, you noticed something is slightly "off"...
2006-12-31 17:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyedann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and let her know that you are only saying something because you love your lovemaking and you don't want to allow anything to interfere with that. Although it is a very sensitive subject, I am sure that later on she'll appreciate your honesty. Maybe she has some sort of issue "down there" that she is not aware of. Perhaps all she needs is for someone to bring it to her attention so that she can tighten up on her personal hygiene. That someone might as well be you. Good Luck!!
2006-12-31 17:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by clearlovepink 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dam dude this is a hard one I suppose. The only way I know is be open and honest. Let her know that there is a SLIGHT odor. Don't make it sound like the fish market went belly up. Know what I mean?
Good luck.
2006-12-31 17:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Belize69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel you have an open relationship with her? You could tell her that one of your fantasies are to give a women a douch and grab some fenamine wipes too.
2006-12-31 17:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a gift package of feminine products with flowers as a suprise, so its not obvious . What a good sweetheart to surprise his honey with a gift.
2006-12-31 17:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there is a tactful way, but I am sure she would rather hear it from you them some of her co-workers.
2006-12-31 17:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, but she could have a yeast infection, or maybe a STD.
2006-12-31 17:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...thats rough..i dont think so though.
maybe just come right out and tell her? you might get slapped though, so beware
haha
2006-12-31 17:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by MW saved my life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋