so theres this guy..total hottie alert my god, although nobody really agrees with me i think this one guy is super hot, and personally i am quite interested, but i have this fear of guys always liking my friend, pretty much becasue every guy i fall hard for..ends up liking her and they go out..its quite painful and i dont know how to get over this fear..any suggestions..
p.s. she has a bf right now so thats good but shes losing interest in him(sometimes i think she only likes these guys becasue i do) she also has the guy i like on her MSN..i do too but thats how she got her latest bf and i ended up heartbroken
2006-12-31 08:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. for all you who think im fat or ugly... im not fat at all..and i have great teeth and many people have called me attractive..more then my friend..its even more harder to understand
2006-12-31 08:56:37 · update #1
First of all, I'm really sorry. Try talking to her about it- if it's just a need for dominance, tell her to back off and focus on the guy she already has. Tell her about what's happened in the past and explain that you don't want to get hurt anymore from all the guys you like liking her. If she's really your friend she'll understand.
2006-12-31 09:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be the fat or ulgy friend. Guys always go for the best looking girl. So you need to ditch her as a friend and find a friend who is fatter and/or ulgier than you.
2006-12-31 16:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really doesn't sound like a true friend. My best friend once had a different best friend who did something exactly like this. They are now not friends at all, which goes to show that friends can't survive something like this. You may want to find a different friend. Then, get to be better friends with this guy.
2006-12-31 16:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she act around this guy??? be observant about how she acts around guys. if shes like all up and flirty and only 2 those guys u like, then u know shes a bi tch. i suggest u dont tell her who u like from now on. u could also trick her to see if shes a bit ch by lying 2 her about u likin a guy and see if she goes and try 2 steal him and stuff.
2006-12-31 17:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off this is not your friend not if she takes your guys she is a slut. Second off if these guys are going to her you are chosing the wrong type you need to chose one that likes you and pays no mind to her from the beginning.
2006-12-31 16:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the girl, and NEVER let her know you got a new boy friend, cause she'll just steal that one too. She sounds like a mental case. So dump HER!
2006-12-31 16:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Long Beach Moose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your place before, except it was my cousin stealin the girls from me, the only thing i can tell you to do is to tell her your going to try to get w this guy and if she does then your friendship is over. sorry its so harsh but it worked for me.
2006-12-31 17:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Fireman69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should over look this . she is your friend guys will go and come all your life but she will stick by your side . i dont think she does this on purpose but i do not now much about her so . .um yeah i think you should forget about it .
2006-12-31 16:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him ask him out or get your friend to like someone else and she'll leave you alone.
2006-12-31 16:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by jacqueline u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when its real you will know it, dont rush it
dont compare yourself to her
your better than she is on so many leaves
when you find the one, he will respect you and love only 100%!
2006-12-31 17:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋