shes in my collegeI.wanna know more about her.If my approach is not tactical I might end up being this total despo for girls type of a guy in her mind.so im a little confused as to how to approach her.something quick but something that doesnt make me a despo in her views??
2006-12-31 08:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was the first impression over e-mail or i.m. or was it like in person? If it was in e-mail or i.m. then just go up to her, and say, "Hey you know I had a real good time talking to you, and I feel like we might have something special." If it was in person, then just say,"hey you know last time we met, I felt good about myself and I would like to feel that way again." I'm a girl and I know what girls like from guys. Dont' be all clingy and whiney and crap, just be nice and gentle, don't make yourself available 24/7...your busy monday, but available on thursday. that kind of stuff.
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2006-12-31 08:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by ktluvaxx♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this thing that i have prepared for other ppl and i just made it as a result to post this for you.
“a date” V.S. “A DATE”
Although “a date” and “A DATE” may look similar, these two things have numerous differences. First of all “a date” is where you take the person of the opposite sex that you like to get to know that person better, have fun, and just hang out. Friends are allowed on these “a date”. But when it comes to “A DATE”, this is when you take that person to a special place as bf/gf. This is a very simple idea and easy to remember, but don’t mix the two up.
The Five Steps of “a date”
When you take the person on “a date”, allow friends to come. So that you allow the person that you are taking on “a date” to see you in your environment and for you to see her in her environment. Get to know him/her friends and let him/her meet your friends. Treat her friends and her with all the respect in the world, no matter what. This will allow them to think very highly of you and they will like you. Now about the topic of this passage, “The Five Steps of “a date”, you want to start off with friends on the first “date” and have at least five “dates”. The second “date” should have less people then the first “date” and the third “date” should have less then the second and so on. Keep on “removing” friends from these dates as you go thought the five dates, but on the fifth make sure you have no friends. Don’t make a huge jump of people from “date 4” to “date 5”. She/he will find out what is going on.
The Transition From “a date” to “A Date” (mainly for men, females section COMING SOON!!!)
This is a very hard thing for you to do...so I am going to jump straight into it. On the last “date” take her home, no matter if it is out of your way, just does it. I guess it is like making sure she safely gets home. She will see this and say” Oh wow what a nice guy” But before she goes inside the house, talk to her and tell her that you had a fun time with her throughout the times that you guys spent together would like to make the next “DATE” special and ask her if she would like to go out whenever as your gf…for example
“Hey Samantha, you know I love spending my time with you and you are fun to be around. I really enjoyed the time that we spent getting to know each other at the movies with my friends and your friends and things and epically I enjoy our get together tonight/today and I want to know if you care to join me for dinner and movie next Saturday (whatever date you want), probably as my gf?”
Make sure this happens face to face, not over the phone or on the internet, face to face. You can change the words, but that is basically it right there. Don’t be nervous at all and tell her straight up. Don’t make nervous body language, b/c it hurts just watching or thinking about it. Well good luck! Update me on the results and if you have anymore questions you may Aim me at AznSensazn34 or Yim me at Chinaman0389.
2006-12-31 17:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her be yourself. You could suggest studying with her in the library which will eventually lead to her number. Ask her if on break she wants to grab something to eat
2006-12-31 16:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋