2006-12-31 08:34:58 · 39 answers · asked by DUB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just end the relationship, by staying with that person whom you do not love, you are causing more damage than if you just ended the relationship. ~Princess~
2006-12-31 08:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to do this, it is just a question of when do you want to start the process. Anyone who loves deeply enough gets hurt if the relationship doesn't continue, or why be in the relationship if no one cares how it ends? Do you hurt him/her now or later is the more appropriate question, I think. Better now, and then there is no deception. You are the stronger one because you have had time to think about it; this will be a surprise to him/her, but don't give in and make it worse by staying if you want out. Being nice now and hurting him/her later, is not better than hurting him/her now, and allowing them to eventually find someone who loves them. Good luck.
2006-12-31 08:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is be upfront and honest. Then put as much distance as possible between the two of you so she can properly heal. Your honesty should be respected when the cloudiness of "being in love" is over for her. There is no way to avoid the initial hurt, but you are actually being thoughtful for not dragging it out.
2006-12-31 08:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid hurting someone when you want to end the relationship, especially if your partner still wants to be in the relationship.
You can make sure when you do tell her/him you want out of the relationship that you be respectful and honest and tell them in person.
That's the best you can do.
2006-12-31 08:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dub, remember you can't control how another person is going to react. You're making an assumption about how she is going to react but it may not be accurate. You have to be true to yourself, to honor yourself. If this means interrupting a relationship, then do so. Consider, if you don't say anything, you make two people unhappy, you and her. If you tell her your feelings, she may or may not be unhappy but she will get over it. You, on the other hand, will feel relief at the disclosure and will move on-which is something you can't do now.
2006-12-31 08:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way. Just be honest. The worst thing you could do is stay in a relationship with someone you don't love. You will miserable. Just tell her the truth and end it.
2006-12-31 08:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own experience I found that dragging them along will hurt them even more in the long run. So be up front about your feelings and thoughts about the relationship and both parties should move on ASAP.
2006-12-31 08:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way out is to tell them the truth. That you're sorry, but you just don't have the same feelings. Remember, the hurting helps us to let go.
2006-12-31 08:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might want to so then then up. and try separating away from them. Don't want to hurt them then just, like if they called you then say no to like going dancing, or going to a restaurant. If they keep calling then you know that they are going to ask to go some were expensive then strait flat tell them a little white lie!
When the time is right tell her that you dint want tot Herta her and just dump her Really Nicley
2006-12-31 08:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyl94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do it without hurting them. Sometimes it is necessary for people to be hurt, not that you will purposely hurt them. If you realize that you need to distance yourself let that person know it. It's up to you whether you want to state the reason.
2006-12-31 08:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋