because she goes off to another room while im sleeping and makes phone calls with giggleing and flirting and i think she might be cheating on me. i asked her and i didnt get anything out of her. what do i do/?
2006-12-31 08:32:10 · 26 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your instincts... or maybe she's laughing at you behind your back with her friends about how you lack in bed ~ The princess has spoken~
2006-12-31 08:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
So, you live together and you wonder why she has no commitment. Hmm.
Anyway, I would definitely confront her directly. If she is worth keeping she Will sit down and be serious with you. The following is a confrontation method that should produce a safe environment.
1. Affirm the relationship - Let her know how you feel about her.
2. Discuss the issue - Tell her what's on your mind. Do not accuse her of cheating. Be ready for an immediate reaction. She might be cheating and confess everything during this conversation.
3. Discuss how you feel about the issue - Just mention the phone calls and how it makes you wonder who she's chatting with.
4. Discuss what can change - She might enjoy the chats and it might not be a boy. In any case, you need something to confirm the situation is not hurting the relationship. Even if what's hurting is your own assumptions.
5. Discuss the change taking effect starting now.
6. Reconfirm the relationship. - She needs to know you value her as a friend, lover, person.
Good luck. If this relationship takes a good turn, you should consider proposing and making an honest woman out of her.
2006-12-31 08:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u wait till shes sleep and call a girl and go into another room and laugh and flirt loud enough to wake ur gf and if she asks u who it was dont tell her. Soon she will start to feel some type of way and cave in so u tell her how u felt and that she was doing it to u. If she doesnt respond and still do it its not meant to be.
2006-12-31 08:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Quinah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay hun .. what u do is get sneeky with it ask her questions to throw her off and on the subject about her cheating and sneek around when she goes off to another room fake sleep and then when she walks out creep behind her and listen up on what she is saying and if he sounds like she is cheating pop up in the room and curse her out and be like why the hell would you cheat on when i thought you loved me and turn around and cheat on me on the damn phone and who knows where else just tell me why . why would you do that to me . what did i ever do to you to make you do something so cruel to me. just then tell her how you feel and the reason why.. i hope i helped
2006-12-31 08:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That's situation has "Call Cheater" the TV show all over it. On the real, it's time to roll out. Life is too short to sweat people that don't wanna be with you. Besides, if you stay there and she continues to do the same you'll become bitter and that's one of the worst place to live. BITTER AVE.
2006-12-31 08:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by DUB 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dood.. sneaking off in the middle of the night for giggles and chat in another room is the HEIGHT of respect in a relationship. Isn't it?
Sounds like it's time for "We need to talk..."
That's a "game over" in my book.
2006-12-31 08:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by tobiemonterrey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me you need to check her calls first thing in am. Just maybe you can find out who she's talking to. It may be nothing or it might be another fella, in which case you may ask her why.
2006-12-31 08:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would ask her very directly what the nature of the calls are. If she is not forthright with you...you probably have an issue on your hands that will only get worse.
2006-12-31 08:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by dreamshop78 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her. That is wrong. Talk to her amnd tell her your fellings. Dont back off. If she redfuses dump her. That is if she refuses to tell you or is actually cheating. Ask for a answer/reason
2006-12-31 08:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe shes going to talk to her friends but she doesnt want to wake you up. I suggest you become a detective for one night and sneak up, stay in a relatively safe spot, and listen to what she says. IF you get caught, just tell her of your suspicions and see what you get out of her. However, try to simply listen and get the information for yourself.
2006-12-31 08:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leave a hidden tape recorder near her phone and if she refuses to tell you if you catch her flirting.....INSIST on a friggin' answer.
2006-12-31 08:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋