Do you believe in standing in faith and prayer for God to restore your marriage and home? Can a miracle occur to bring my husband home again? I feel strongly about 'standing' but think I am just an attack ground for satan. I do not need to do anything to get more attacks, I am beaten down enough.
2006-12-31 08:31:37 · 12 answers · asked by strong1 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I was in the hospital when my husband filed to divorce me. I have bipolar plus my dad had just died. {grief, stress, depression!!!} I was not on medication and I had a breakdown. He was scared that I would harm our son, or worse. He said he loved me, but now he choose not to talk to me. I really believe satan has blinded him. We both were Christians.
I was searching for a forum where I can see others that are standing.
Even though I have faith in God, I feel myself slipping away. Not sure I will recover at all.
2006-12-31 09:08:34 · update #1
Jesus can restore you marriage. Trust in him. He brought back men from the dead. He rose from the dead and is alive today. e is the one that can bring not only people back to life but relationships. He can heal and restore and do the impossible if we will trust him. And you can know that it is his will for your marriage to be whole because of what the Bible teaches about the marriage relationship. Do not give up hope. Wait on the Lord and ask the Lord to show you how to talk to your husband. Jesus can bring your husband home.
2006-12-31 08:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by adrian b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-16 17:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray To God To Restore Your Faith.
2016-03-14 00:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe that God will heal and restore your marriage because he wants to do it. He's an expert at restoren broken hearts. I stand along with you for the restoration of your marriage. Check out these websites:
http://www.rejoiceministries.org/
http://www.restorem.org/
God bless you!
(I'm also standing for my marriage)
2006-12-31 08:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Miss k 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't say the reason why your husband left. If he is a man of faith, and he is still in love with you, then yes, hold strong. But if he is cheating and no longer in love with you, and is not a Godly man, then you need to move on and forget about him. If you continue to "mourn" for him you will only ruin your health and emotional self worth. Just trust in God to help you get through this. Lean on God!! I do hope your husband comes back, and you two share a happy life. Remember to always pray together and to keep God first. Best wishes.
2006-12-31 08:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by GraycieLee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not get some support? Why not have some friends agree with you? Two are better than one, & a three-fold cord is not easily broken.
Happy New Year. May this year be one of productivity & peace for you & your family.
2006-12-31 08:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I think it can. I am having a difficult time too right now and have been for two months mine is a little different than yours. I feel I am being attacked to by satan alot. and my prayers sometimes dont go past the cieling, but I still try and as long as I have breath I can hope and so can you. it doesnt hurt to try. good luck and I do hope he comes back
2006-12-31 08:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by mystical s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tracy,
Sorry you have had a hard time! And YES, you need to stand strong with GOD and His Word that IF He wills, your marriage can be restored and the hurt and sin Forgiven!
(2Corinthians 5:17-to-21) Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
(2Co 5:18) And all things are of God, = = who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, = = and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation;
(2Co 5:19) To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; = = and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation.
(2Co 5:20) Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, = = as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ's stead, be ye reconciled to God.
(2Co 5:21) For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
Thanks, RR
2006-12-31 08:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone in your struggle.
If mates just cannot live together in peace, is separation permissible?
1 Cor. 7:10-16: “To the married people I give instructions, yet not I but the Lord, that a wife should not depart from her husband; but if she should actually depart, let her remain unmarried or else make up again with her husband; and a husband should not leave his wife. But to the others I say, yes, I, not the Lord [but, as verse 40 shows, Paul was directed by holy spirit]: If any brother has an unbelieving wife, and yet she is agreeable to dwelling with him, let him not leave her; and a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and yet he is agreeable to dwelling with her, let her not leave her husband. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in relation to his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in relation to the brother; otherwise, your children would really be unclean, but now they are holy. But if the unbelieving one proceeds to depart, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not in servitude under such circumstances, but God has called you to peace. For, wife, how do you know but that you will save your husband? Or, husband, how do you know but that you will save your wife?” (Why would the believer put up with hardship and earnestly endeavor to hold the marriage together? Out of respect for the divine origin of marriage and in hope that the unbeliever may in time be helped to become a servant of the true God.)
What is the Bible’s view regarding divorce with a view to remarriage?
Mal. 2:15, 16: “‘You people must guard yourselves respecting your spirit, and with the wife of your youth may no one deal treacherously. For he has hated a divorcing,’ Jehovah the God of Israel has said.”
Matt. 19:8, 9: “[Jesus] said to them: ‘Moses, out of regard for your hardheartedness, made the concession to you of divorcing your wives, but such has not been the case from the beginning. I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication [extramarital intercourse], and marries another commits adultery.’” (So the innocent mate is permitted, but not required, to divorce a mate who commits “fornication.”)
Rom. 7:2, 3: “A married woman is bound by law to her husband while he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is discharged from the law of her husband. So, then, while her husband is living, she would be styled an adulteress if she became another man’s. But if her husband dies, she is free from his law, so that she is not an adulteress if she becomes another man’s.”
1 Cor. 6:9-11: “Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men . . . will inherit God’s kingdom. And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean, but you have been sanctified, but you have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God.” (This emphasizes the seriousness of the matter. Unrepentant adulterers will have no part in God’s Kingdom. Yet, people who formerly committed adultery, perhaps even improperly getting remarried, can gain God’s forgiveness and a clean standing with him if they are genuinely repentant and exercise faith in the sin-atoning value of Jesus’ sacrifice.)
2006-12-31 08:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to the Family Life Weekend to Remember and I loved it. They talked about Satan attacking your relationship etc and what God says about marriage. it was wonderful. Go to...
http://www.familylife.com/conferences/marriage.asp
2006-12-31 08:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋