I met a guy and he and I became really close, really fast. We weren't dating at the time, especially since he had a girlfriend that threatened him if he would ever break up with her. I told him that his relationship was not healthy and should get out of a bad situation if he wasn't happy anymore. He eventually dumped the girl and we started going out soon then after. I had never felt so good about a relationship before. We could talk about anything, and I knew this relationship just felt "right". Time went by and his ex started threating my life and i had to file harrassment on her. He was there through it all. It was a very tough time. One weekend, I went to my parents house and came back to find him different in the way he felt about me. He thought we had moved to fast into the relationship, which I agree. Our relationship faded and he eventually cheated on me. I was so hurt, but at the same time I have this desire to still be with him. I am still talking to him, but should I be?
2006-12-31 08:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Musica, all relationships are difficult. You can't control how another reacts...you can only control how you react. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as the truly great and wonderful person you really are. Accept yourself without judgment and realize that you are unique in the universe. He is going to act in his own way. Consider this, if he doesn't recognize what a great and wonderful woman you are, why would you want such a "blind" man? Honor yourself and you will find that you will choose only those as friends who honor you.
2006-12-31 08:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make this decision... If you can forgive him, and learn to trust him again then yes... If you feel that you can't trust him (and that would be understandable in this situation), then you should cut off your relationship with the man...
2006-12-31 08:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its okay to talk to him just as long as u dont go wit him. unless u either trust him or u want to be cheated on again
2006-12-31 08:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Charnelle aka Nelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just wasting your time he hurt you and what he just wants to be friends soon you will be back together, you think it wont happen but it will. mabey you'll find some1 better and ignore him whatever you choose good luck
2006-12-31 08:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by penguini_9214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys can talk about stuff and work it out and you feel that in your heart you can forgive him and not hold it over him then i hope everything world out for you
2006-12-31 08:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on dear, its not going to work.
2006-12-31 08:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋