My ex bf is a senior in college and i'm a 2nd-year grad student.(we are long distance). Objectively speaking, everyone says he should feel lucky to have me. Although this is the 1st relationship for both of us but i always had many admirers i just decided to stay single until i met him. He's kinda geeky,shy,not smooth at all with girls. But i thought he's unique, at least i would never have to worry he'd cheat on me. So we went out.We were once very in love, in the 1st 6 months of our relationship. I persuaded myself that although he's not everything i wanted, u know, being outstanding and all, at least he's very nice to me and that's what matters. So i became attached to him more and more and told him i just wanna be with him. As long as he knows that now i love him more than he loves me, he changed and broke up with me probably b/c i'm not a challenge anymore. And maybe he feels stressful being with me b/c he's not very capable of handling everything in life so he cut me out.
2006-12-31 08:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know schoolwork is kinda killing him since he's not that smart with books(i hate to say this though b/c i always do well at school) but i didnt know it could this bad for him. It's his final year in college and i just found out he may have to be dismissed or on probation(i checked him email without him knowing it b/c i'm worried about him he seems so stressed out.) So now i dont know what to do. I still want him back. I was born and raised in a way not to give up my feelings easily. But i feel like he needs his time and space especially after the dismiss/probation thing. But i so wanna help him b/c i know how to do well in school.i can give him good advice but he doesnt want my help. I feel so bad and i wonder under such tough circumstances would he miss me or wanna push me further away. Would he ever wanna me back?
2006-12-31 08:28:45 · update #1
Help him. Relationships are tricky but you have good intentions. If he is unable to recognize that then feel rewarded that you did the right thing by him.
2006-12-31 08:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by bearmuscle13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off he is probly to proud to ask or accept your help. Don't worry its not ment to be insulting, does he have the attitude of "If i caint do it on my own than i cant do it", he may like you a lot but he may not want you to see him fail. so try to give him a little space but not to much cause you want to keep his intrest but you dont want to seem despret, again not ment to be insulting, cause he sounds like he needs a chalange. if you want to help him try to get him to talk bout his work and ask him how he is going to go bout doin his work. just a suggestion
2006-12-31 08:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Fireman69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be stressed, but he wants space. if you try and help him at this point, he's going to continue pushing you away. let him find a tutor or someone and move on to continue your studies. your studies are too important at this point to sacrifice for a man (although, don't get me wrong, it is nice to have a man).
2006-12-31 08:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. HOW COMPLICATED!! Well, ou just have to wait to see what happens. Or you can talk to him and see how he feels. :]
2006-12-31 08:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by jerrell'sz_bOO. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, crap!! well, as i said b4, only time can tell...
2006-12-31 08:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋