why are more and more peole dating online. i mean arent there enough people out there to date really. this world is filled with hot guys and the ones that are on the computer are usuallly desperate losers. no offence.but people lie so much online and yet people look instead of getting a little active and going to a mall to look for someone special. why
2006-12-31 08:27:34 · 10 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because people are lazy like you
2006-12-31 08:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online dating can go both ways. Good or bad. I have dated online a couple of times. First time I went on a date with a guy it went bad. Now I met a guy online 7 months ago and we are pretty serious about each other. It is going great. You have to be careful in what you are looking for. A person can usually tell by profiles that a guy (or girl) is after one thing. I am very happy with the man I met and I dont consider him a desperate loser or do I consider myself one. I do agree though, there are SOME desperate people on there also.
2006-12-31 08:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online dating isnt the way it use to be, it has gotten more serious in these past few yrs than it has ever been. yes there are a bunch of who you like to call "losers" on the internet who cant seem to find a girl/guy by going out and looking for dates but theres nothing wrong with wanting to match interests and personality with somebody online. dating isnt much different online than it is in real life except the fact that you dont get to see each other as often or at all, but for a relationship to last communication is very important and nowadays ppl who meet ppl in public only go for their looks and not personality so in the long run those relationships dont last.
You have to look at it from both perspectives, some ppl prefer to go out and look for somebody and some like to look online so they can match themselves with somebody that fits them. Just let ppl do what they want to do and quit criticizing the way ppl date, if you dont like it dont do it, its that simple but let everyone else live their own lives.
2006-12-31 08:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by JMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well online is cheaper than going to a club. I met my wife on line and we have been married 3 years. You are right about people lying so I had a few rules
1. No chatting unless you had a webcam
2. meet only in public places never give out adress for the first month.
3. Proof of age.
4. Always trust your instincts.
5. Be prepared to bail at the hint of something going wong.
Following these rules didn't always get me laid but it kept me safe
2006-12-31 08:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people can be more open about themselves online. For example: adults like the swingers personals sites if they are into the lifestyle. These sites like swingersetc provide a way for people who are into the same thing to find others who match their profile. Most people are very pretentious .. even online.. but at least online you can be more cautious about meeting strangers and at least get more info on them. Exchange photos.. etc.
2006-12-31 09:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by freak_magnets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because i think online dating just get u hot and steamy on the computer but in the real world you could be dating someone on the side and still date that person on the computer it's nice to have a extra sweet boy on the side to confront you but really cant Lol it sound stupid but think about it {it's true}
2006-12-31 08:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of ways to see what someone looks like now.
To call someone a loser because they might date someone they met on line is narrow minded and judgmental.
What, is it more romantic to meet in a bar drunk??
Some might say it's harder to spark someones interest online because you are dealing with intellect and personality before seeing the person.
It's hard to be interesting in an IM, you know?
2006-12-31 08:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You meant offense.
The truth is, the people dating online are similar to the people who date in real life. All online-dating is is Pre-dating. people try to match up interests before they try to date for real. That's all.
2006-12-31 08:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason is because they have probly already found out that the females in there area are a bunch of stuck up b!tche$ and are tired of there insults and or they just flat out ignore him/her. i know this cause this is what happened to me and i found my soon to be wife, if you dont agree with it then how bout finding out why females are so stuck up in your area.
2006-12-31 09:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Fireman69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so many people do it because they think its so much easier i agree with you though you cant believe what anyone says on the computor and youd be better off lookin for your self
2006-12-31 08:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋