problem with a girl?

Question

i've liked this girl for a while and i ended up letting her know...she said she liked me a lot too but didn't want to take anything too fast....she always plays these dumb games where whenever i text her she'll wait a long time before texting me back and make me feel like she's not interested...like super hard to get, but then if i ignore her for a while she'll start texting and stuff...i really like her. i've asked her to hang out about 5 times and we've only hung out one of those times...we kissed and stuff and she was really into me the next day calling and stuff, but now she's back to how it was before she just doesn't seem interested in me???? should i just act like i don't care? i don't wanna seem desperate to her b/c i'm not, but i do really like her it just doesn't seem to be getting anywhere

Answer 1

It looks like she's trying to play hard to get. She's probably doing that cuz she doesn't want to feel too pushy. If she says she likes you then she means it. Let her take her time, sooner or later you guys will get closer. Just wait and she'll come to you.

Answer 2

there's a book on this kinda stuff. only it tells the girl to wait, make him work for it, see how much he likes you, and it also says that you should wait because most guys like their space. or maybe she thinks she'll ware out her walcome if she's too quick to answer. or maybe she doesn't want you anymore. but i would think that if she hasn't already broken up with you, then she still likes you. talk to her and ask her, but be nice.

Answer 3

It sounds like she's just stringing you along.

Act disinterested (without ignoring her), and she'll probably come to you. Once you're together, don't be too into her--some girls don't like that.

Answer 4

still talk to her and act like normal, but dont really talk about ur relationship and see where it goes and how she reacts.