Well, Her dad doesn't even know we're going out. Her sister is going out w/ my friend and they've already broke up 3 times because of thier dad. HELP PLEASE!
2006-12-31 07:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanx everyone for the quik answers, but the thing is she's a sophmore and i'm a freshman... and she doen't have a cell phone. I know her dad's strict, and I was mostly wondring how to loosen his grip on his daughters.
2006-12-31 07:57:54 · update #1
Make good with the Dad. Bring him to your side. Make him comfortable with you and let him trust you. You have to do it if you really like the girl. If the dad likes you and trusts you, you won't have any problems.
2006-12-31 07:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try emailing her to see if she is interested in going to the party. Have her meet you there. That will at least address the issue at hand.
After that, sit down with your girl and discuss what her father's issues are and any ways you can prevent what happened between her sister and your friend from happening to you. You may want to sit down with her father at some point and discuss with him your intentions with his daughter, clarify any misgivings and concerns he may have. It may be difficult, but sometimes you have to be an adult and step up to the plate, especially if you really love this girl. He should appreciate your wanting to talk to him man-to-man.
2006-12-31 15:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you call talk to the Dad. Introduce yourself, tell him a little about you and then ask to speak to his daughter.
2006-12-31 15:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well there's not much to worry about if you guys are older and have cars, but there's a lot of lying involved for those relationships when you have to answer to your parents on everything and where they're driving you.
2006-12-31 15:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG her dad needs ot bak off a bit. but it may also dependon ur age and her age. try callin her on her cell or make one of her friends call her n 3 way and u can b on one line. the dad wont mind her talkin wit one of her friends and he wont kno ur there cuz shez the one whoz gonna talk.
good luck wit that :-)
2006-12-31 15:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by redefined x27 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i cant help u cause i have the same situation. i cant date but have cellphone thankgod. try to talk to her dad. i know its hard but u should work it out
2006-12-31 16:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋