What can lead to suicide?(relationships?)?

Question

Well, Im adding my 2 cents to this because sometimes i feel hopeless. I have a small penis and im black(mixed). The reason why I said im black is because of the stupid myth that all blacks are big. When my black friends talk about how they have a big penis and there sex lives with girls, I tend to walk away from the conversation. Most of my friends are 5'9 or taller. Girls come at me all the time but I dont have sex with them because of my size, and I want to be with a girl I care about. People call me a pretty boy, but I would wrather be bigger and look average. Im 5'7 and look young for my age. Im also a really nice person and it sucks that there is nothing I can do to change my size. I try day after day to get over it but it always comes back to me so I stay away from relationships. Sometimes I dont feel like living because of this but I stay strong and hang in there. I pray to god everyday telling him to give me strength and that I hope I find the woman of my dreams.

I am not thinking about suicide, Im trying to say do you think that that can be a reason that can lead a person into doing it? A small penis, being short, being blind etc...can lead to depression and have you doing something bad to yourself.

Answer 1

hey i am a black man i dont have the big penis that they expect me to have as a black man. to this day i still struggle with this even though there have been women in my life that did not care what size it was. the size of your penis is only a small piece of who you are not punt intend. how are you going to find the woman of your deamif you stray from relationships. God will only bring that woman for you when you are ready. it is just learning to deal with God has given you and there is nothing you can do about. you just have to learn to deal with and move forward. hey if you ever want to talk email me.

Answer 2

That is not true, however, the argument still stands. It does not matter if you are immune to intoxication, intoxicants are still wrong. That's because the world does not run on one person. It takes everyone into account. If there is fear of corruption, do what it takes to put and end to it. For you, hugging is a trivial thing where nothing really happens. For another person, hugging is an enormous gesture of affection. Its better to be safe then sorry, as the old adage goes. Again, you cannot break the law because you are different. Why can't you use a gun under-aged? Logically, it is immaturity that would lead to unfortunate mishaps. But just because you can control it better, does not give you the right to break the law. Besides, when men and women get into contact, transfers do take place. Women have a slightly higher body temperature then men. Affection clings on. Hugging does not directly lead to sex, but it is down the line. The inevitable is considered actual. The society we live in only endorses these types of behaviors. Society has reduced these great gestures of admiration, into simple things to be given freely. Before, in America, it was improper to even touch a women in respect. Where has this respect gone? Irrespective, the lack of social interaction between genders (as was your actual question) still is logically sound. There is some science to support it, but its mainly common knowledge and common sense.

Answer 3

Suicide is a long term soulition to a short term problem. It's a fact the people who commit suicide feel that their lives have come to the point of hopelessness, when in fact with a little clear thinking and truning to someone who really cares, they can find the answers to what ever is the problem.

As far as your race goes, it really isn't the issue. Many men of every race feel that they are a failure in this area, whether it's size, preformance, looks, etc. This is a culture thing, and a stupid outlook as well. Truly there IS someone for everyone in the world. Any woman who values you for who YOU are, not WHAT you are, will not give a damn about your race, size, etc.

As for your "friends" bragging, it more than likely is just their own lack of self esteem speaking. Regardless of any bragging or bosting, or just plain junk talk, it really don't make them any better than you.

I think it's a good thing that you walk away from this kind of trash talk. You have morals and values, and their trash talk offends you, but I think that because you feel that you are "lacking", you take it that somehow you are something less than the man you are. It takes a really big man in spirit to hold your values, than to trade them for some form of trash acceptance.

I understand the feeling of hopelessness, as at one point in my own life, I sat on the edge of my bed with a 30-06 in my mouth, thinking that this would "fix" things. Instead, i put the gun down, and sought out some counseling. I am ever so glad that I did.

Belive me when I say, "You will find your life partner someday, and she will be worth the wait."

Answer 4

Well obviously there can be MANY reasons as to why people may commit suicide. I would say one of the biggest reasons why someone would kill theirself is because they are disatisfied with theirself in one way or another. It's safe to say that you need some self-esteem, and that your not gaining any hanging around the crowds that you hang around. You need homies that make you feel confident, and good about yourself. That give you props, and then you give it back to them.

Your smart if you know that most girls prefer a big guy with a big dick. Your even smarter if you realize that most women are not going to be attracted to you naturally for your appearance and size. And as a human being, it is extremely discouraging to feel completely undesired by the female. Thats just the way it is. You need to find some courage.

I recommend not trying to find the "women of your dreams", because you might be searching for a very long time son. Instead, try to find some courage, as well as self-esteem for your own well being and not to impress anyone else. And then on a mental level, women will continue to be attracted to you, if not even moreso, but still on a physiological level, they may still continue to be not so impressed.

Dude it takes alot to impress most girls, you need to relax, and enjoy the fact that you arent getting your head severed off by hooded men over in Iraq, or that you arent in a Mexican prison somewhere for years upon end waiting passionately for contact from the United States embassy.

Its understandable that your own mind can make you feel like your own world is hell, but its best to understand a few key things. You have the OPPORTUNITY to still have sex with many different girls. However, the truth is that girls talk, and if a girl finds out you have a real small D, she will most likely pass the word on to her friends. It is also true that a big D makes a female anticipate and love sex with her partner. Alot of times, a girl might lose sexual interest in a male because of his small penis. And if the girl loses sexual interest, well, a breakup is quite possible.

Another thing is that, science says they are about 10 years away from developing a safe, effective method of penis enlargment. If you are around the age of 20, you can have a 10 incher by the time your 32 or 31! Dude that means that you can have a big penis for around 70 years!!! Now I know that sounds awesome, but in the mean time, my friend, you need to find some courage, and quit trying so hard to impress a ho. Impress yourself, that is all that is necessary.

Answer 5

Lets us just kill ourselves for our imperfections and lonliness. I mean who gives a crap about us. We wake up hopin for somethin thats not there. Until we get so old and alone we wish we just died. God loves us and wants us to be strong. So im strong but i aint happy. Live till I finally can croak. The best time I have is when I go to sleep and finally feel like nothing exists. When I wake up, bang, its me living this BS called life. I aint in the person to talk 2 right now for positive outlook in life because I deal with reality and reality is that if you can find that person that completes you and wants to be with you then you are so lucky because more than likely you wont and you will die alone with no one who gives a crap about u.

Answer 6

Develop some confidence in yourself. Women are not looking for sex ONLY. They want security, honesty, humor, and they want to know that you won't hurt them. A woman who truly loves you will not care that your appendage is not as big as others. Work on that self-esteem. Seriously. You can do it.

Answer 7

don't woory about yur size just don't mention any of it to yur friends so they don't give u a hard time and find a girl who is not into sex till marriage or something so yur friends don't make it such a big deal........................don't tell them ever or anyone about yur size problem becase it can really effect yur social status

Answer 8

I have 3 words 4 ya: Size doesn't matter. if you're hot, girls will come no matter what size you are. and 5'7" is pretty tall. i'm 5'4"!!!!!!

Answer 9

You idiot. Why are you even thinking about suicide. I did not read your long explination... DONT COMMIT SUICIDE!!!!!!!!