No matter how hard I try to get to know a girl before asking her out she says, your too much like a freind or your like a brother I never had. What in the world does this mean? And what should I do or say to keep this from happening?
2006-12-31 07:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. FFA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would ask her out before you really get to know her that way you haven't become to friendish to her. when your on the date talk about things that interest you both as opposed to helping her with problems or talking about her or your past bf/gfs.
2006-12-31 07:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duuuude!! You've got a problem. it's not her. it's you. You've got to stop being nice to her or being there for her all the time. Trust me, I've been there, done that.. and it's the same result - if you treat them too nice, they will treat you like a friend or a brother.
That means NO sex for you. You've got no attraction going on, and no sexual tension. If you do want to get to the next level of intimacy, you got to create sexual tension and supercharge your attraction.
The solution is to tease her, and bust on her for being such a whiny, bratty 'sister', or for being a dork, or being silly. And don't do what she asks you to do. Don't help her unless it's an emergency. Don't buy things for her, and don't buy her dinner or whatever. Stop being the shoulder to cry on. Don't be needy - you have your own life - especially if you like her and want to make out with her.
Do the exact opposite of what you've been doing lately, without being rude - be cocky and funny.
Good luck
2006-12-31 07:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that means that she isn't interested. To keep that from happening again tell her your intentions from the get go. Hanging out is all good but if your not careful you'll keep ending up in the friends zone... good luck with everything!!!!
2006-12-31 07:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take them out on dates and kiss em, I hope they dont do that with their brothers!
Basically you're too friendly of a guy, someone that they feel comfortable with, but there's no sexual chemistry between you, at least that the girl feels.
2006-12-31 07:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋