The other day I walked in on my boyfriend using the computer checking his e-mail. He had gotten a message from singlesnet.com and when I walked in he quickly deleted it. I left the room to watch t.v. not thinking anything of it.... But when I walked back in to ask if you were still going to another couples house we know... He quickley minimized the screen he was working on. On the tab at the bottom I could read it "singlesnet signup". I didn't say anythang about it right then, but the next day when I asked him he said he was just looking at a friends profile. Should I be less suspicious or should I wonder if he really wants to be single? He don't know, but I know his e-mail password and login. So, I also checked his e-mial and saw the signup welcolme letter. Then I went to the website and saw that he had been looking at women around and near where we live. We have a baby on the way so I don't want to lose him but is he trying to dump me?
2006-12-31 07:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not be worried about it right now. If things seem like something is wrong, bring it up again. Your baby does not need to be around someone like him. He may be going through a stage. Sought of like porn. He is about to become a dad and that makes him look less attractive. He also is probably getting nervous since it is setting in that he is going to be "tied" down and is looking at what he could have had. I know that sounds bad, but I am refering to how guys still use porn when they are seeing other people. I think it is just a way of him feeling a little more free.
2006-12-31 07:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your boyfriend may be in shock of your pregnancy and not ready to be a father. i know this may be hard to hear but he also may be looking for something different in a woman that what you offer him. if i were you i would be honest to him and say that i know that you've joined the singlesnet.com does this mean something because i want us to be a happy family together when the baby arrives and i don't want you to leave me with the baby. be very honest because i would not trust him especially if you saw his email with the letter. maybe there is something you do that really bothers him and it's gotten to the point where he can't take it anymore you just should sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk about whats going on before one or both of you get hurt. he also may be looking for someone for a friend but that still is very suspicious that he's always hiding it from you. talk with him before it's too late.
best of luck, i hope this helps and hopefully the new year will bring you good luck! happy new year!
2006-12-31 15:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Put A Smile On! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be he is just looking for some attention. Only you would know if he is dumping you. People really like the Internet for many different reasons. If you want to know and are ready to accept his response to your questions, then ask him and ask for honesty. Lay your cards on the table. Tell the truth. that you are aware of the website he has been visiting, you only check it out because of his behavior of hiding it, when you walked in the room.
So, is there something he wants to share, share it now. It is not right to wait, if he knows now that he wants out of this relationship. You are giving him the opportunity to stand up as a man and do the right thing, not using you, til something else comes his way.
2006-12-31 15:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was only receiving emails I wouldn't worry about it. I get spam from a couple of dating websites that I had never even heard of until they showed up in my spam folder. However, since how he did sign up I would be a little worried if it was me. Try talking to him and telling him that you did look at what he was doing online and that it bothers you.
2006-12-31 15:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't believe him he shouldn't sign up that singlesnet.com if his not trying to find someone else. what else his looking for he already got you and his having a baby pretty soon is that wasn't enough for him yet? if not wasn't enough for him then is time to make your decision maybe he is not ready to do his responsible for the baby. is better to tell him now what's going on than later. good luck hope that it will help you this.
2006-12-31 15:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loser. Dump him before you ruin your unborn childs life. Sounds like he is trying to hook up with some other women in the hood.
2006-12-31 15:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men suck. Do what you want and feel is right. Im pregnant too and have been married over 2 years and mine always lets me down. but because i love him and am pregnant with his baby i dont want to leave. but i think thats all i can do. so do what is in your heart and good luck
2006-12-31 15:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him. Ask him what is going on. Don't stay with him if he keeps on doing it. When the baby comes, get child support from him. Don't wreck your life staying with him. Plus why would you want to stay with a player.
2006-12-31 15:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by hellopeople13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you schould first take a deep breath and think whats best for your life.you cant always trust guys . if he say he is just not doing nothing most likely he is.but it is good to give him a second chance.
2006-12-31 15:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by flossing12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep checking up on him, always be two steps ahead of him then you will know what to do !!!! Be Smart Girl!!!!
2006-12-31 15:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋