We dated for 2 years and a month, and we loved each other. She dumped me because I was being lazy. She never told me anything was wrong with our relationship, and when she finally did, she gave me a week and a half to 1. Make all our date plans. 2. Call her every day. 3. Invite myself to go with her and her friends to the movies. Just recently, she told me that she is still in love with me, and I am still in love with her. Should I wait a couple of months for her to be ready to come back? or should I not? She is the love of my life, and every day I go crazy thinking about her. Anything I do makes me think about her. We had been planning getting married after a couple of years, and moving in with each other. What should I do?
2006-12-31 07:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by troublingmischief 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down and talk to her.
2006-12-31 07:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen im no professional advior but i believe that ppl are equal fair enough mayb u was laxy but she didnt help u when she gave u a week , u cant change or force a person into things just like that she should have helped u and worked with u its not just for one person to do all the work
if u love each other for real then i suggest life is 2 short u must both sit down and discuss how u feel and wat u both want come to some arrangment and agree to try together and not blame each other for the past or that will just drive u apart
if u can forget the past and move on go for it if not try and start again elsewhere
good luck
happy new years x
2006-12-31 07:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she still loves you then you should go and ask her if she will take you back if you love her then those three things that she asked of you sould be a piece of pie not a prob at all blame your self for everything even if you know its not your fault and things should work out
and if she is the type that you can give the sad puppy dog eyes to do it and dont stop until you start crying and say i love you and walk out of her life go to your place and un plug your phone and turn off all contact with the out side world and make her feel soo bad she comes to you if she doesnt ... i hate to say it but she don' t love you if she can stand to see you like a wreck and crying your self to sleep she dont love you and i know it will be hard but you can get thru it
dont jump into another relationship and for heaven sakes dont talk about her once you move on its going to work out
2006-12-31 07:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by deamon slayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go rent The Break-up with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston. Sounds familiar. Hope this helps.
2006-12-31 07:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever will be will be. She sounds a little needy for me, I would find another. Love of your life, hun, there are lots of girls out there. I would wait a while, meet new people, try to move on, and maybe just be friends. Then see where that goes. Good luck
2006-12-31 07:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I'd give it a bit longer before deciding whether I really want to get back together. Aren't you even a little concerned she so abruptly ended a two year relationship over something so seemingly trivial?
2006-12-31 07:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. If you guys are meant to betogether things will work out iin the end. Just take it 1 day at a time, try to be friends first then go from there. Good luck!!
2006-12-31 07:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? You should move on with your life and chalk this one up to experience. DO NOT go back to her EVER. You will be a wuss if you do. Never go back to a woman who dumped you. Have standards for yourself and find someone worthy of your love. She was not worthy. Period.
2006-12-31 07:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh do no longer difficulty you are the variety of effective guy!..you will ought to recover from her by some ability. despite if it would desire to look like that toughest subject to do!..its a good which you have a mushy heart, and im useful you will locate somebody who's into you as much as you're to them! goodluck :)
2016-11-25 03:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy! get your act together. If she is the love of your life, wouldn't you do anything for her?? My advice for you is to get her in your arms A.S.A.P!! be a little romantic... you know if she is that kind of person.
2006-12-31 07:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by temari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think embrace the moment, don't play games. Maybe take it easy and just date eachother. And if you don't get back together you risk losing her.
2006-12-31 07:35:53 · answer #11 · answered by bippidibopiddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋