i just met this really nice girl the next day after i met her i paid her phone bill just for the hell of it.
now she wont talk to me, did i do something wrong?
2006-12-31 07:15:12 · 13 answers · asked by hunda b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she used you, let this be a lesson, if you hardly know someone and they wouldnt be willing to do the same in return for you then dont give anything...
2006-12-31 07:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just doesn't make any sense, why on earth would you pay a phone bill for a girl you just met? And she got upset and she won't talk to you? Sounds like you need to get a girl, not a nutcase.
2006-12-31 07:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by ~Brit~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You paid the phone bill, that's what you did wrong.
She now views you as a trick.
Definition of trick:
a guy who spends his HARD EARNED MONEY on girls just to get the girl to like him or approve of him...
Whatever respect she had for you, she no longer has.
Quit trying to be the nice guy. Women don't respect that.
2006-12-31 07:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way, I would not pay the phone bill for someone I just met. I guess she used you (really nice or not) and abused you. Count your losses and forget her.
2006-12-31 07:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by carole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she feels she owes you something. In the next instance, if you feel the urge to be giving, try a small gift of candy or flowers. That usually works wonders in any friendship or relationship.........and it's much warmer to boot.
2006-12-31 07:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, I think that she used you and you are crazy that you paid her phone bill, she should have pay yours. I think you got play brother sorry!
2006-12-31 07:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get mad at the person, I'd be thrilled!! However, she more than likely took your money and ran.
2006-12-31 07:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunda, she sees you as a chump - she used you, and dumped you once her bill was paid!
2006-12-31 07:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she used you like a used rubber.duh.That was a big goof.Don't do it again.Or you will find yourself in same situation.P.S. I need a new car will you buy me one ?
2006-12-31 07:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO she just used you. Don't worry about it move on, what goes around comes around!
2006-12-31 07:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋