everytime i like a guy, he always ends up treating me like garbage. but whenever i don't like a guy, he's willing to treat me like a queen!!!!! why is this? i am so frustrated that i'm contemplating giving up dating altogether. it never works out. it could be a really nice looking guy, and he will totally treat me badly-he will use me for sex, he won't take me out any place public, and basically i sit around and wait on him to call me. however, if it is a ugly guy, i can't get him to stop calling me! he's always willing to take me out and spend time with me, and treat me really good-the only problem is i'm not attracted to him and i don't like him! i don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be attracted to the one you're with-but that never happens to me. i don't think i am an ugly person. i think i deserve more than just getting laid from a nice looking guy. i want a relationship damm.it!
2006-12-31 07:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll never land one with this kinda drama...
2006-12-31 07:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all breathe! I keep playing the lotto to win my million dollars, but I don't give up, I keep playing. So in your case, (if you are a believer) keep praying. Your situation is not unique, maybe to you but a thousand others have heard the same. What I would say to you is don't be so fast to jump into bed with someone for sex. Honestly, it takes more than a month to see a person's true worth. You may want to jump into the bed quickly as well, but first you need to make a list of everything you want. Stop looking at the outer beauty, and begin with the inner beauty and then you will see what you are missing. Treat this as an experiement and I gurantee you will be pleased. There is nothing wrong with wanting physical beauty, but they are not always the winner! I don't know you, but I know your story because it was once mine. Just think, that guy may be thinking the same about you. You may think you are J. Lo, Paris Hilton, Halle Berry and he may see you as Cruella Deville? Good Luck!
2006-12-31 07:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l understand ur feelings. Everything is a matter of cause and effect, in your case u've got your own answers
(but whenever i don't like a guy, he's willing to treat me like a queen!!!!! why is this?) Just think about this, why are they willing to treat you like a queen? ...............A: because their options are quite limited, so when they got a catch they dont wanna loose it. (they know and admit they are ungly...well this happens inside their minds, I'd say selfesteem issues)
(it never works out. it could be a really nice looking guy, and he will totally treat me badly-he will use me for sex, he won't take me out any place public, and basically i sit around and wait on him to call me.) ...........A: Unfortunately there are plenty of fish in the sea, therefore, nice looking guys got avaliable " menu a la carta " they can pick the girl they like...why do they treat u in that way???? Im gonna be honest with u, you've gotta check your own behaivor.. here are some clues... have u ever wondered why casanovas behave that way, have u ever wondered why badasses behave that way??? A: WE/THEY LEARN THE SKILLS !! Everything is a mental game
2006-12-31 07:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by -Vladimir- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right. First of all, calm down and take a breather for a little while. You've obviously had a lot on your mind. Don't worry. The right guy will come along. Most good looking guys are jerks, I admit. But there are some that are good looking and nice. You'll find one someday. But, for now, if all the nerdy guys that want to go out with you bother you, just tell them that you're under a lot of pressure and that you don't want to get into a relationship right now. If they're as nice as you say, then they'll back off.
2006-12-31 07:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are they ugly or just not as good looking as the guys that treat you like crap? Sometimes going for a decent looking guy that will treat you well is better than going through half you life dealing with good looking guys that will always treat you like ****. They know they can get anybody they want because they look good which is why they don't care how they treat you. Beauty is only skin deep. Find somebody you can love for who they are, not what they are on the outside.
2006-12-31 07:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you assert what you imagine you're. i'm sorry to assert it yet you sound like an fool. you're boastful and he or she is conscious it. women like a humble guy who would not kiss their behind so quick. also a good number of girls like undesirable boys.
2016-12-01 09:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by fuents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute guys get tons of women, so they don't have to work for it. Ugly guys have to work for it BECAUSE they're not attractive.
2006-12-31 07:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look no more!!! I am right here waiting for you! (Something to remember, Beauty is only skin deep.)
2006-12-31 07:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your attitude and set your sites a little higher.
2006-12-31 07:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit giving up the sex so easy.
2006-12-31 07:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋