Ive been dating this boy off and on for over 3 months and I thought I was in love with him and now hes in love with me all he talks about is me me me and when hes not talking bout me hes talking bout wut to buy me but i think i lost my feelings for him but i care bout how he feels and i dont want to hurt him how do i get him to end the relationship so i don't have to. He done broke up with me 3 times and i went back to him. How do i get him to do it again???? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 06:40:05 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same experience. i think time will solve ur prob. there r 2 possibilities:
1. u may fall in love again
2. he may get ur feeling and breakup (my situation)
2006-12-31 06:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him. I have read so many stories about stuff like this. The boyfriend is always saying how pretty you are and how much he loves you, but he really doesn't mean it. He just wants someone to hang on to. That is why he is breaking up with your so much. You don't love, or even like him like you used to. It's time to move on and I think you should let your "boyfriend" know that to. Everyone always say that have found their true love but it is only when you feel like you can't be without him and talk to him everyday and he also feels that way, that it is really love. It is so easy to believe that you have found your true love at an early age, but it is not true love, only imagined love.
2006-12-31 06:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you really feel and be honest to him and be very caring that you dont want to hurt him. If you do that im sure he has to understand because you cant keep going like this if you dont have feelings for him. If you dont want to do it this way then you rather let him dump you like he has done in the past this time have more respect to your self and do what you want.
2006-12-31 06:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lt! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you haven't got your **** together. Now you want to be a b****.! Whatever, who broke up with who? Truthfully? Then stop puttng out...period...no matter how much you want it, stop . And talk up front before he spends his life savings and his life chaseing after something that will not happen.
Or, simpler, you could get into a disfiguring handicapping car accident with a brick wall. I hear that works.
2006-12-31 06:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's employing you to make himself seem cool to his friends. If he hasn't asked on your type or a minimum of tried to speak to then you he does not such as you for a girl buddy. He in simple terms likes that no count how stupid he acts you pass alongside with it like some domestic dog finding for somebody to play with. supply up taking part in dumb with him and next time he throws something at you in basic terms seem at him, roll your eyes and supply him that "strengthen the **** up" seem. shop doing that till he leaves you on my own or a minimum of asks what the issue is then you definately can tell him you do in comparison to boys who don't be attentive to a thank you to act whilst different everybody is around.
2016-10-06 06:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're saying you don't like being fawned over by a guy?
Tell him you feel flattered he's so attentive to you but he needs to slow down a bit.
2006-12-31 06:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off! Dont wait on him. The longer it will go on the worst it will be.
2006-12-31 06:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's broken it off 3 times, what do you keep going back for??
2006-12-31 06:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to show him that you are not interested in him anymore or associate with a best male friend
2006-12-31 06:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off with him.. Its not right u leading him around like a lil dog on a leash..
2006-12-31 06:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋