me and my girl friend have been together for 9 months and we really love eachother. but she has had sex with a few guys before me and she always says she was pressured into it and didnt really like it. but i dont know how it is possible with that many guys. i always think about how many guys she has had sex with and im not as special as she says i am since she let them have intercourse with her whether she wanted to or not. and i mean if she didint like it idk y she couldnt say no, but she does say she loves that she found someone that wants her for more than just sex. and she has said she has never really been a horny peron with past relationships, she just had sex with them so they would stop buggin her about it. also she says she has only gotten off with 2 of the guys but i get her off everytime since she actually wants to have sex with me i dont pressure her inot it
2006-12-31 06:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by clayton P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two things here.
First, you need to grow up. So she had sex. She told you it was a mistake. Forgive her. You both will need to learn how to forgive each other if you're to have a good relationship.
Second, listen to what she is telling you. Trust what she is telling you or the relationship is again, doomed.
2006-12-31 06:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun this girl has a past just like many people , u have a past too , u got together with this girl because you loved her rite ?? wel dont let that spoil things now , try to forget the past ..i kno its hard but u must ..
try talkin to her and tell her excatly how u feel !! thats the only way and ask her not to mention the past and look towards the future :)
its 2007 nearly so heres ure chance to a new start b happy and dont give up , seems like u really care enough to ak for advice so thats a start!!
gud luck
happy new years
x
2006-12-31 06:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presumably you also had a sexual history before you met your girlfriend? Stop focussing on her past and concentrate on your present relationship. It's not unusual for a girl to regret having had sex with one or more previous partners. If you both really Love each other, that's all that should matter.
2006-12-31 06:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not gonna be common in any respect, and you're gonna smash her coronary heart the two way. So the main suitable thank you to assert this is barely immediately forward and easy together with her. Then to instruct you wanna be friends and you look after her as a chum coach her that nonetheless you have got broken her coronary heart and did no longer attempt as difficult in the courting and fall for her like she did you. which you will consistently be there whilst she calls or text cloth you. or maybe once you spot that she is unhappy. it is not common, even nonetheless it incredibly is the main suitable way. a woman does not choose for to be lied to it in simple terms makes it greater durable to have self assurance a individual. So in case you do in comparison to her, then whilst your breaking up together with her do no longer say it.
2016-10-06 06:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants you not to think she is the whore she really is. A good girl would dump a guy that was pressuring her for sex and move on to someone that did love her for something more.
2006-12-31 06:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Angela F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stopo thinking about it. Most people in a realtionship have had sex before. Have you? If you have maybe she should break up with you cuz your a normal human being. Get over it. people have sex. everyone you meet is not gonna wait on you to have sex. it's a natural human urge.
Are we in kindygarten hour now?
2006-12-31 06:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is lieing! U don't have sex with people so that they stop bugging! So if she goes to a clubb and a bunch of guys ask her to have sex with them she'll just do it so they stop bugging her!!???
2006-12-31 06:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has betrayed you. Get out of the relationship...NOW!
2006-12-31 06:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋