seek my revenge on a bad "x" or forgive and forget
2006-12-31 06:33:44 · 15 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The opposite of love is not hate but rather indifference.
Let it go. It burns so much more in the long run anyways.
2006-12-31 06:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The revenge won't make you feel better, and might make things much worse. You should take the lesson with you, but allow yourself to let go of seeking a way to get back at the person. It's getting on with your life that will be the best way of handling things.
2006-12-31 14:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget. Revenge is terrible and usually backfires. You'll feel better if you take the high road (the road less traveled) and just forgive and let it be. That is true freedom.
2006-12-31 14:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither - revenge makes you no better than him and I find it impossible to forgive & forget so I just move on and make sure I look much happier and better off without him.
2006-12-31 14:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeking revenge only leads to more problems. Try to come to terms with what happened with your ex and move on.
2006-12-31 14:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge has a way of backfiring on you in some really horrible ways. It is so rare to really get away with it and have it go right that it is not worth the risk. Just live and learn.
2006-12-31 17:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge. Get over it. It's a waste of time and you might wind up in jail. Or having the crap beat out of you. Channel your energy on something useful. Go running, do some push ups.
2006-12-31 14:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best revenge is to live well. If the person is an X, then leave it there. Don't waste your energy on it. You've better things to do.
2006-12-31 14:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by James M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and Forget. Or just forget and move on. Whichever one works for you.
2006-12-31 14:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what he/she did... If its a major screw up that he/she did...maybe go for revenge, if not forget about the loser...it would give him/her too much importance..
2006-12-31 14:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋