He said he just wanted to be friends with benefits, which I am fine with, honestly, but I'm just trying to figure out if his actions are saying it's more. He drove 2 hours to see me, spent the night and cuddled the whole time, he breaks plans with his friends to be with me, when I was at his house he really wanted me to sleep over and was really upset when I wanted to leave, he got jealous when my ex-bf called, we also hang out together in public, we talk a lot and watch movies together and stuff like that. He says he enjoys just being with me. Does this really sound like it is just FWB? Does it sound like he has feelings for me and if he does why doens't he want to be bf/gf? Thanks!!!
2006-12-31 06:24:37 · 14 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is a prime example why women should never enter FWB situation. They are emotionally hazardous.
If he wanted you to be his girlfriend, he would have told you by now. You are just a Friend with Benefit, if he meets someone he likes more, he will kick you to the curb and start up with her.
If you have feelings for this guy, please tell him before it goes to far and you end up hurt and jilted. He doesn't care about you, but he cares about the sex without any attachtment, and what guy wouldn't go out his way for easily available a**.
Men aquire many stalkers playing the Friends With Benefits game, please don't be one of them.
2006-12-31 06:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that to me! I had a FWB and he only came over for the B and left right after!
2006-12-31 06:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by picassoesque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants the BF/GF without the strings attached.
Or maybe he wants the FWB thing only he gets all the benefits, & you get to give them.
2006-12-31 06:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine this is more suitable than FWB. it truly is the way it sounds anyhow. looks that could want to be his little the front that he has because he might want to have lately gotten out of a relationship, yet yet he enjoys doing all of those issues with you. And the clingy area is a particular signal that he does have emotions for you. search for suggestion from with him, and note what's extremely on his thoughts.
2016-12-01 09:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by fuents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it sounds like he is having trouble admitting his emotional contact, friends with benefits have no obligation or rights to stay monogamous so why else should he care that an ex boyfriend calls?
you might find a sly way to confront him if you'd like to encourage the relationship.
if not, cut him off. he's obviously more involved that even he suspects and it will hurt in the end when you land someone with whom you'd like to be committed.
2006-12-31 06:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by brandylyn_kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds exactly like friends with benefits. Most guys will drive two hours or be nice or caring to a girl who willingly has sex with them without expecting anything. You are saving him from having to pay a hooker and he is grateful.
It sounds like you don't realize just how much a man needs sex. They will do anything for it. He is playing you. He is messing with your emotions so he can keep banging you when he wants.
2006-12-31 06:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is more but he doesn't want to mess things up. You should just ask him. Good Luck!
2006-12-31 06:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems very very VERY interested in you. If you like him just as much as he likes you..Why not just ask him out? If he says not; they apperantly he must not like you..He must of just wanted to fool around with you. This is friends with benefits--major. I hope all works out. :D <3
2006-12-31 06:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Alexa[[loverxxface]]<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it seems like he cares about you more than that, maybe he's confused and that's why he hasn't mentioned anything. Maybe the best thing is to talk about it and see exactly what both of you want.
2006-12-31 06:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I think he does care about you hmm, and also it sounds to me like you're his property but at the same time, doesn't wanna go further than being friends, you should talk to him about it, and ask why gets like if you're just friends with benifits
2006-12-31 06:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Meow♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋