i met this guy. we talked on line. didn't talked to him for a week. he sent me a message asking why that was. we talked on the phone several times. everything was great. i kept some things to myself. we met before christmas. i liked him. we kissed. i called him 2 days after that. he sent me a cartoon message. i called him another 2 days after that. i want to see him. he hasn't called. he's really busy at work, he has told me that since day one. i think he likes his girls calling him. i don't want to look like a stalker but i really like him, and i don't know if i should call him again..... should i wait? (he is not the only guy that i'm talking to on the phone or meeting, i do have a life, but i feel a special something for him). i have seen that he is online every day, but he doesn't drop me a line. i don't know what to do. any ideas?
2006-12-31 05:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't have a girlfriend. and when i mean girls i mean his girlfriends... he has girlfriends, girls who are friends, and he has called me.... once. hehe i've called him 3 times.
2006-12-31 05:27:20 · update #1
first time we met he invited me to his place, i met his mom, she loved me, his dog loved me, we watched a movie and we talked for a while. i gave him a little present he has always wanted and i gave his mom some candie. they were happy to see me there.
2006-12-31 05:32:22 · update #2
He's just not that into you!
(sorry honey, truth hurts)
2006-12-31 05:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by blank 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is on line everyday , he has time. Here you have the infamous player, with all his little tarts lining up to get a piece of him, so they think... My god here is a player , if I have ever seen one.
You are In a line-up, my dear, a line up of possibilities....
If you have never met this person, how do you know you are really interested.
Can you tell me honestly , you know someone that well by talking on the phone and texting, or on line gab!!!!!!!.
Gee-sh... you say you have a life, then date the ones that call and the ones you can see.
You are on a merry-go-round with this dude and your horse is going nowhere.......
Give it up.. let go of the elusive jerk... For all you know he is some weirdo who is married with kids.......
Don't believe everything someone tells you on the phone.
When you are face to face then make up your mind...
You can see if they are lying or not.......
This is so much, a waste of time.....
do not call, do not advance, do not pass go..... game over!!!!!!
2006-12-31 05:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it cool. Continue to date other guys. If it's meant to be it will happen. Sometimes things can't be forced to happen. Just go with the flow, date the other men and if the guy feels the same about you, he should call. If not, move on and have fun. He's probably looking around too. Chances are that you are probably not the only girl he's talking with as well. Who knows, maybe one of the other men you're talking to is Mr. Right. Good luck.
2006-12-31 05:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by heylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he may be a bit of a player if he only likes girls calling him he may well be doing what you are and talking to several girls on line and getting them to call him. if you want to chat with him message him on-line or call him if he tells you to leave him alone then do so but don't expect a serious relationship from him.
2006-12-31 05:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jay The Jester 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes playing hard to get, give him one more week. DO NOT call or email him for one week! If no contact from him after one week, then call him and ask if he is still interested. If not move on hes a player!
2006-12-31 05:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a guy can get a compliment such as handsome, hot, sexy, gorgeous, cutie, he'll take it.
2016-03-29 02:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide what you want from a guy and then make sure you are with guys who meet those standards...
if you want someone who calls and drops you a line then tell him - if he says no move on...
it is important to decide what you want first though and then stick to people who are compatible with those desires...
2006-12-31 05:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call you dont chase after him. It may be more than work keeping him busy.
2006-12-31 05:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously wtf??? Don't get sucked in to be calling him constantly...it's only gonna leave you always second guessing the relationship like if he's really into you or not since you're the one who's always calling.
Work or not he should find the time to call you if he really likes you and wants to be with you.
2006-12-31 05:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter who calls who? It's the twenty-first century.
If you like this guy just keep doing what you're doing,maybe he'll start calling as well. You can go on from there.
2006-12-31 05:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes online go ahead and message him
he probably likes to feel loved when people come to HIM, thats how i feel
2006-12-31 05:22:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋