This guy I like didnt date me long but he said that he was a "wishy-washy" person and changes his mind a lot. He said that us dating was fine he just doesnt want to date anymore. Why do guys do that and why would he not want to be with me when everything was fine?
2006-12-31 05:06:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the guys that I have ever known to do that are Geminis - no lie. The symbol for gemini says it all - two head, two minds. Dating you might have been fine, but lacked a certain something and so does not strongly keep his interest. Do not try to figure it out or to accomodate them. As you develop your own nature, everything else will follow. People are all different and you have run into a character flaw that is definitely on your NO list (like me!). The new is always greater than the old - look forward to that and don't give that guy another thought. Whatever! right?
Peace!
2006-12-31 05:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be any number of reasons.
I know I've been guilty of breaking up with a girl after a 2 week relationship, mostly because I was finding that after the initial physical attraction, there wasn't a whole lot there. We didn't share many interests, we had opposing working hours (which made it hard to see each other) and when we did get together, we always ended up just watching a movie or something at her place (she almost never wanted to come over, claiming she was too tired from work). I quickly realized there was no way this was gonna work out in my mind, so I broke it off before either of us got too attached.
It could also be that he's really good at disguising his assholeishness, and was just hoping to get some action, and maybe you didn't oblige in the ways he hoped, so he ended it. That's pretty harsh, but we all know that guys like that are out there.
It's hard to say, I wouldn't worry about it too much, just find whatever good you can take from the experience and move on to the next relationship.
2006-12-31 05:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just a thing that guys do, girls do it too. Some people just aren't really meant to be in long meaningful relationships (or any sort of relationship!) until they get older. They don't like to be... tethered, if you will, to one person. Everything may have been fine between the two of you, but maybe for someone like him it takes more than "fine" to make him stay around... maybe he's looking for "amazing"
2006-12-31 05:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by harpielingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN PLEASE, NOTE MEN ARE NOT A FEMALE AND THEY DO NOT THINKS AS WE DO
he told you he was "wishy-washy" mean he is not in one place , but he out to explore- With all that you said he said , and where your emotions are , be thankful it was 9 days, move on-
Him not wanting to be with you "when everything was find'--Everything for you may have been find- not him he moved on -DON"T TAKE IT PERSONAL
2006-12-31 05:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do it too, by the way. I think that guy is either a little nutty, or he didn't like you and didn't want to reject you and hurt your feelings. Or maybe he found someone else he likes better than you. There's no telling. And no amount of analysis will yield any useful information here, so I think you should just ignore this guy and move on. Good luck!
2006-12-31 05:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like to run from responsibility, and some guys overall just do not like commitment at all. i don't think you did anything wrong. maybe he thought he was ready for something serious and when he saw that it was too much to handle he freaked out and told you it was over. dont really think about him. think about something else. some guys do these type of things fro no reason or they want to prove something to a friend. im not saying that, that is what it was. it was only for 9 days. i hope you guys didnt do anything serious.
2006-12-31 05:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything was fine in YOUR eyes. Something about your personality he did not like and you should be thankful he did not string you along. He did the best thing in ending the relationship.
So just be friends and if he wants to be in a relationship again? Best to say no, and stay friends.
2006-12-31 05:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of its style of ordinary. you like her on the interior, yet there is not any longer a actual charm. while she is away you're in basic terms connecting on the laptop/telephone which in purely intellectually and emotionally. Then once you notice her there is the comprehensive actual charm subject. there'll be a great form of people who will inform you're shallow and small minded, yet in fact all of us have issues we are interested in and additionally you could't administration it. Chemistry and charm are a extensive area of a relationship. in spite of the indisputable fact that, you have been extremely merciless to her with the stringing her alongside. She has come out to bypass to you many situations and each and every time you haven't any longer any situation having intercourse together with her yet then you blow her off. you're no longer 18 you're 40 six. you will desire to understand greater effective than to tackle somebody like that. If she needed to shed extra pounds for you she could have by now. She would desire to be enjoyed for who she is and additionally you're being merciless. leave her on my own and enable her discover somebody who adores her and treats her kindly.
2016-12-15 05:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you and you let him do it. That "wishy-washy" line is a big steaming load of bull!
2006-12-31 05:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be lucky that he didn't string you along, you start developing feelings and then dump you. Be thankful that he was honest and told you upfront. He saved you a lot of unwasted time, energy and hurt.
2006-12-31 05:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋