This is meant to be a serious question! I really want to know how woman get sex appeal! I am 21 and as I look at friends from high school they just scream experience (sexually) which seems to bring more of a womanhood about them! I am 21 and still a virgin which lowers my confidence to find a good man because sex is what's hot on the market! I don't understand. How do you get that womanhood about yourself or that sex appeal instead of everyone saying that you are just cute?
2006-12-31 05:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone has been helpful besides those people of ignorance who have nothing else better to do but TRY to prey on others downfall. So I have to let the community vote on this one!
2007-01-02 05:19:51 · update #1
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I know your question is asking for more sex appeal, But you don't realize that you already have it, There is nothing more appealing then still being a virgin!! Wait for that special one that loves you more then himself...My god their should be more like you!!
2006-12-31 05:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't equal womanhood and you don't have to be overly girly to feel like a woman. Sexiness comes from being confident and confidence comes with liking yourself. Sex really is such a small part of life (even though it doesn't seem like it!). Being a virgin shouldn't factor into how you feel about yourself. Look at the good qualities you possess and what attracts people to you. Focus on the what you've got, not what you don't have. Finding a man isn't the end all be all, believe me! When the time is right, you're going to meet someone that likes you for you and that will make you feel like the sexiest woman on the planet.
2006-12-31 05:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Womanhood, just like anything else, is what YOU make it. Believe me, sex is highly over rated, my dear... don't put so much emphasis on it! You are every bit a woman as any other, and you've actually got the upper hand on most because you're also a lady. Be confident in what you already ARE.
2006-12-31 05:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have confidence , you will go a long way. you do not have to have sex to have sex appeal. maybe you just havent found that one person you sets off your spark. i bet when you do you will feel the way they feel. it's good that you're a virgin. wait for the person that you love. it's only best so that you dont get hurt. do not,i repeat do not have sex because you want to feel womanhood. there is nothing wrong with not feeling it as this minute. it is normal. the human body respond to feeling ,hearing touching, smelling and seeing. your body hasnt responded to that just yet. it takes time.
good luck.
2006-12-31 05:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have sex to be sexy! I think it's great that you are obviously waiting for the right person and that's the way it should be.
Could you be dressing cutesy, instead of dressing like a mature woman? Try tailored clothes that show off your neck. Stay away from polkadots and flowered prints or anything that looks more girlish, instead of mature. Also, have confidence and know that you are a special woman!
When dealing with men, you could buy the book 'The Rules', which shows women how to handle themselves better with men. That book really works!
2006-12-31 05:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself around men. I don't know what you look like but what you've got to remember is 2 things: True beauty comes from within and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You'll find the right person sooner or later. And don't listen to Tough Guy. What a pvssy he is to make derogatory remarks about a woman he's never met while answering questions on the internet.
2006-12-31 05:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough Guy is an idiot who wishes a black woman or even a white woman would look at him.
You have to have self confidence in yourself. And you DO NOT have to dress like a tramp to have sex appeal. Find a good role model and follow their lead. Oprah dresses great all the time.
2006-12-31 05:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found virginity loss does not equal womanhood. I felt like a woman after I became comfortable and confident with who I am.
2006-12-31 05:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are more of a woman then you think. :) sex don't make you a woman/man.
You have managed to save yourself for the right person, and they are just out there doing the d** thing.
Don't feel bad, and sex is not the hottest thing on the market when you consider STD's, AIDS, HPV,
Please know that you are very special, and don't let anyone tell you that you aren't.
When you meet the right man, he will appreciate it and place you on a pedestal, just because YOU ARE A WOMAN.
2006-12-31 05:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Khandi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need self confidence. i think it's fantastic that your 21 and a virgin too me that does not mean you're ugly but that you are waiting for a nice guy to come. you should wear clothes that suit your body, .i.e if you have nice boobs wear low cut tops to show them off a bit, wear sizes that you are and not that you want to be.
hope i helped if you want more email me j.holland16@gmail.com
2006-12-31 05:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by ch8tergurl06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋