my fiance and i are in new york and every things seems fine untill he gets up and say he is going on the road by himself, in which we always go on the road together. he says he just want to walk around manhattan by himself. he has been spending lots of time on instant message for the past few days, does this means he is gone to meet someone? im so upset and before he left we had a argument about it. please help me.
2006-12-31 04:39:56 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may want just sometime alone...but it sonds like he has another agenda. you might have to look into this further.
2006-12-31 04:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but that is a sign that he is up to something. Some guys starts arguements in order to give them a reason to live and so called cooled off but its not that, its go go elsewhere. Too much on instant message, and you dont know who hes talking too or what is the conversation about can be another sign. It has happen to me, and still hurts to this day. Talk to him straight out, ask him, if hes not being straight, retrieves his instant messages by asking the instant message u using if its aol , yahoo, etc and see for yourself whats going on . When things didnt occur before, is happening now and seems wierd, trust your intuision. Its a bad sign. sorry again to say that, hope Im wrong. take care
2006-12-31 12:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by i_shout_plz_care_4_each_other 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem like something is up doesn't it? I'd get to the bottom of it, one way or another, but first, see how long this persists. Let's assume he is doing something private, like meeting a family member about an issue he does not want to discuss with you. There are plenty of valid reasons why someone may be keeping something private. Let it play itself out a bit before you jump to conclusions.
Good Luck.
Peace.
2006-12-31 12:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be bad. But I wouldn't worry about it to much. Even I sometimes just like to walk around by myself. But the Instant Message's do sound a bit sus. It could turn out REALLY bad if he catches you, but you could follow him, see what he is really doing.
Hope everything turns alrite :)
2006-12-31 12:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't necessarily mean bad news. He may want some time alone. But since you posted this today...it is New Years Eve.
Do you and him have plans tonight?
In any case, don't accuse him of anything until you know the absolute truth. Guys HATE that.
2006-12-31 12:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something is clearly up, and you first of all must calm down. If he is cheating on you, it's best not to marry this person. You must sit him down and calmly talk about it without drama or yelling. If he wants out of the marriage then it's best to do this now. before you have kids and have to go through lawyers and divorce court,
good luck
2006-12-31 12:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that he is meeting someone but when that distant he either wants time to himself OR he looking for love elsewhere.but i wouldn't know. he coul be planning something special for u.ask him
whats up these past weeks or so & see what u can find out.if not hire a P.I
2006-12-31 12:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Brittfren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds suspicious talk to him about it or if your feeling sneaky follow him or find out who he's been instant messaging he could just be hanging out with his friends or going to a bar or something but if you do spy on him that'll be betraying his trust
anyway I wish you and your fiancee good luck in the new year
2006-12-31 12:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't get too worked up about it, sometimes people just like their alone time, I know I do. But if signs continue, confront the matter in a calm, non-accusational, way
2006-12-31 12:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by obxfisher1444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is going to meet someone. Insist on going with him. If not follow him or pull up those im's and find out for yourself.
2006-12-31 12:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something going on,but it probably doesn't have
anything to do with you. Give him some space for now,let him tell you when he's ready. Don't push too hard or you may create a
problem where there wasn't one.
2006-12-31 12:45:52 · answer #11 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋