Okay theres this guy and hes not my BOYFRIEND! hes this guy at school(high school)and i have a crush on him and he likes me too.and he keeps on stairing at me every day. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!the important this is what should i do about the crush?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!
2006-12-31 04:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by Candace S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is your choice. Do you want him to be your boyfriend? Do you want him at least as a friend? Do you just like the feeling of having a crush? Do you think that he might have feelings for you too?
If you are just into the feelings of having a crush, do not talk to him. Ignore him when he is near. Do not ever tell anyone that you have a crush on him. This will make the crush last as long as possible. The feelings will eventually die down, but then you can always find another crush.
However if you want to get to know him, then you gotta talk with him (not talk to him, talk with him). You need to get to know each other and open and honest communication is the best way. This means letting the crush be the motivation to approach him to talk.
Crushes can lead to friendship, romance and even love. The difference is the degree of honesty and amount of common interests that the two of you can share. These are determined by communication. Body language can only go so far. Words are better but more difficult unless you are a very talkative person.
If you cannot do anything else, you can at least go up to him and tell him that you thought that he might be interesting to get to know. Then take it from there. If he is shy, it might take a while to get him going. Do not be pushy, be patient and honest.
2006-12-31 08:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 22⤊ 1⤋
The previous eye contact trick. once you sitting in college (or anyplace you're) verify out him till he looks at you. even as he does, stare into his eyes for no extra then 4 seconds yet a minimum of two earlier searching away. If he holds your gaze for that lengthy it truly is a sturdy signal. After a jiffy look lower back at him. If he's searching at you and holds your gaze (even possibly with a grin!) he has were given to love you.
2016-12-01 09:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by kuebler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well try to spend more time whit him get to no him more and when u think is time to tell him go and tell hey you're in high school not pre school
2006-12-31 06:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by ashley s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you then why hasn't he asked you out yet? If you both know you like eachother then one of you ask the other out!!!
2006-12-31 04:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out
2006-12-31 04:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
then hang out somewhere other than movies (not enough talking) go for a walk, ect
2006-12-31 04:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with him and see what he does
2006-12-31 04:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by jbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and maybe it'll work out
2006-12-31 04:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you fill.
2006-12-31 04:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by ☺☻♥♦♣♠•◘○Me Ashley Tisdale! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hook up with him.
2006-12-31 04:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋