i used to work with this guy and we've had sex 3 times. i haven't seen him in person since August 2006-and here it is December. he always calls me and tells me he wants to come see me, and that he will come over in an hour, but then he never shows up! he doesn't even call me and tell me he isn't coming! i feel like such an idiot. there i am sitting around waiting on his stupid phone call, then he never calls! i am so frustrated and i don't understand why he does this. i don't see what pleasure he would get out of doing this. i don't know if he stands me up on purpose or if i'm just not important enough to him to hang out with. why does he even waste his time calling me if he knows he really doesn't want to hang out? is he doing this just to irritate me? i want to tell him how i feel, but he may not call until six months from now! and i'm too afraid to call him. this is just a really screwed up situation and i wish i never even met him. why does he do this to me?
2006-12-31 04:31:59 · 30 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does it because he can and guess who is allowing it? YOU!! Stop taking his calls and find something else to do. He is using you.
Peace.
2006-12-31 04:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it to you because you allow it. There's a book called he's really not that into you. I would read it. He's either found something else to do or he gets busy and forgets. Regardless, he's not worth your time and VERY inconsiderate of your feelings. If he makes plans with you, and you get a better offer, go, don't call him and tell him you're going. I would love to see just ONE time him try and actually come over and all he gets is an empty house.
2006-12-31 12:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heather S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why he does it to you? The important thing is that you put a stop to it. It doesn't sound like he has any excuse. That's what I can't understand. Women will date chumps like that, but nice guys don't even get a chance most of the time. Just stick around and you'll see questions from nice guys that get turned down all the time. Have a nice day!
2006-12-31 12:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You screwed the guy 3 times and u want him to call you back???? He will call you back when he needs his piece of meat again. This is what you are to him or any guy when u just give it up so easy. You need to get cleaned up, go back to mommy and daddy and learn some morals befeore your one of those teen girls pushing your baby all lone for a walk in the park lol. Do you now have parents or brothers or sisters to teach you to respect yourself? sheeshhhhhh. I hate to be blunt but you look like u need some real honesty.
2006-12-31 21:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are waisting your time and energy! Don't sit at home waiting for him to call. You deserve better. You are a kind and caring young woman and he is an uncaring insensitive creep. Tell him to get lost and you find yourself someone else to love some one who will return your love. Just consider him a learning experience.
2006-12-31 14:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is doing it to you because
A. Your letting him
B. He must mot really like you or care about you
C. Because he is a shallow JERK
Dont be his doormat and dont enable him to treat you like crap!
Next time he calls hang up on him, he hasnt made an effort to see you or spend time with you , so you just must face the fact that he doesnt like you , and I am sorry I dont mean to be brutal, but you are worth so much more than this jerk is making you feel, you need to stnd him up, ignore him, find a new guy, because that one is just trying to play you.
((HUGS))
2006-12-31 12:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by michiganmommyx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just paying with your emotions. If he ever calls again tell him you have other plans. He is probably seeing someone else or mabye more than one person. you need to get over him and move on. You'll find somebody even better and more deserving of you.
2006-12-31 12:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by L.Sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to harm you. His is a sadistic person. Put the phone down next time he phones and call the police if he insists, or ask your phone provider to block his number.
2006-12-31 12:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by s0190331 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called keeping you on a string.. he just wants to see if you are easy for him to get to if he wants you.. a ego thing.. tell him no next time and you don't want him to come over.. then watch his reaction to that... could be pretty funny...
2006-12-31 12:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time telling him anything. Never let him see or hear from you again. He will call again and again and it'll take him awhile to realize you're not there anymore. Sucks to be him, eh?
2006-12-31 12:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋