ok i have been dating this one guy for 5 months and when school started back up we desided that we could date other people at the same time only he wont date anyone else and so i started dating this other guy and have been dating him for 3 months and well i dont know which one i should break up with help!!!!!!!
email me at monkey_girl_777@yahoo.com
much love,
mg777
2006-12-31 04:31:16 · 10 answers · asked by monkeygirl777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know which one i like better and im not a ho im just confused!!!!!!
2006-12-31 04:35:35 · update #1
im around the one i have been dating for only 3 months and im more confortable around the one i have been dating for 5 months
2006-12-31 04:36:59 · update #2
they both know about eachother
2006-12-31 04:54:28 · update #3
both. ur too young to be tied down and worrying so much about this petty crap. You should be worried like this about your future...
2006-12-31 04:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your boyfriend agreed to have an open relationship (Dating other people), then I see no reason to be even making a choice. Unless, of course, if he renigged on that agreement and has now given you an ultimatum, to pick one or the other.
If it is you who is thinking about this and neither of them have even brought it up, then it is probably guilt.
If I were to tell you to pick one over the other, I would have to say stay with the first guy. He is the one still with you, and appearently, wants to make you happy, even if that means self sacrafice. However, you did not say if boyfriend2 is aware of boyfriend1. At the same time, since boyfriend1 is not dating anyone else, that could be due to the simple fact he does not desire more. You need to be certain also that the agreement you and he had, the open relationship, was truly something you both agreed to and not a case where you dictated what you wanted and he merely went along with it.
You will have to decide, if you do not know yet, then you will have to wait until you can decide, but you should not drag it out any longer than the point where a decision can be made. All persons should be aware of the triangle, just so you know. All persons, should be aware of what you intend to do, pick one over the other, but do not be surprised if they both agree to dump you. People do not like to be played, period, and no matter how you paint it, it is still playing one person when you are seeing multiple people.
2006-12-31 12:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your feelings. Which one do you like more? That should be the one you date. Good luck
2006-12-31 12:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I find that relationship odd, I would never do that. Which one do you see more of and which one are you more comfortable around? Break up with the one your not.
2006-12-31 12:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been with this guy for 5 months!!! Just follow your heart and choose the one you love most to stay with. . .
2006-12-31 12:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the one that show you respect , and is honest. and the one you trust more. the answer is in your heart. which one pays more antencion to you. is one makes you laugh also the one that makes you feel special. also the one how is more romantic like gives you poems and lessons to how you feel. and care what you have to say.
2006-12-31 12:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the guy who kept you the most happy, with whome u had the most fun
2006-12-31 12:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by suf_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do you like the best, its not easy but your the one who going to have to choose no one can choose for you.
2006-12-31 12:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur A Ho!
2006-12-31 12:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by ScottsdaleBlessed 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
brek up w/both of them and keep your options open
2006-12-31 12:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋