Just ask her ... mabye in a joking manner? and see how she reacts. If she says HUH? no way! You'll know she isn't game. If she says hey that could be fun .. ha ha ! Then you know she is probably ok with it. talk about it with her first tho .. her idea of kink may be different than yours.
2006-12-31 04:35:03
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answered by Ding Bat 5
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I think this can be hard depending on how old the two fo you are and if you love eachother. I guess it really would need to be discussed either. Maybe just bring some stuff to tie her up with one night and see what she says. Otherwise, maybe start small like getting her a body paint kit and experiment with that. See how comfortable she feels with doing different thigs. Truly, I am a female and, if I had bed posts, I would have my boyfriend tie me up! Hope this helps.
2006-12-31 12:19:12
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answered by Lovely Lady 2
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Say "I have always had this fantasy, can I tie you up"? Either she will agree or she will not. Women can be very understanding. Lay out some rules first though, a code word, if she really isn't enjoying it or being hurt.
2006-12-31 12:19:24
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answered by jimmiv 4
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Well you just ask her if she is into that kind of thing ok she will go along with it if she is not resect her and don't bother her about it again I am sure she has more to her than just doing your fetishes
2006-12-31 12:18:08
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answered by Skwisgaar 2
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Can I tie you up honey?
2006-12-31 12:17:54
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answered by littlewelshrarebit 2
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if you casually browse through some naughty stores with her, direct your attention to the magasines, and flip randomly through different types of mags, ask her what kind of things she likes and what she might try, and casually slip in a mag of bondage, see her reaction, gauge.
2006-12-31 12:18:38
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answered by little b 2
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You have it all ready in the bedroom and seduce her and go slow it will be erotic for her and she will go with the flow!!!
2006-12-31 12:20:23
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answered by mustanglady 6
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you dont ask you TELL you say get on the bed b*tch do as ur told an get ur legs open nowww
2006-12-31 13:28:51
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answered by purple_ronnie_always 3
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Don't go about it in THAT manner! You might scare the lady!!!!!
DAhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
2006-12-31 12:19:11
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answered by julesrules 6
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ask before you get to the bedroom. just come right out and ask her. no biggie.
2006-12-31 12:17:10
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answered by Debt Free! 5
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