i know him from past 6 yrs. he love me alot n we have future plans also. but he doest feel that he is hurtg me by have'g attite n ego. if he is upset from me.. (wdout any reason) he dint talk'd to me for 18 days. n wen i asked him... he jus said sorry. wat to do please help me.
2006-12-31 03:58:10 · 19 answers · asked by sim_ran_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just want to say if u love some one, accept that person with open arms.
6 yrs... n you said he also loves you ryt? it means he is with you for past 6 yrs.
so know him more to know him.
express what you feel but with coolness... if he would b cheatg on u... he must have left you. sometimes u have to leave the things on time. give him some time. to be normal.
love is a beautiful feeling, which can be tackled beautifully!! so chill girl.
n love him as u do. dont change urself or ur feelings to teach sme1.
he is wth you frm past six yrs n he will wd u. as u both have future plans ryt.... think positive n ull get positive... good luckkkkk!!!!
2006-12-31 04:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by angel k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just have the same problem.but my 1 dosen`t even feel sorry .all men think that n this 1 sucks more than any u know.u too act the same way ignore him .i think 4 some reason he thinks he is better 2 u .or he could have probably heard that showing an attitude can increase u`r want 4 him .so make him u`r doormat .he is doing that because he knows it hurts u .trip him the same way and 4 godsake dump him if he is showin that attitude 2 u.i was thinking o4 doin the same 2 my mr.X but now things r changing .so u can wait 4 a while and then think abt dropping him in the bin if u`r problem persists but don`t dump him unnecessarrily.gud luk.
2006-12-31 04:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by kanika a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 6 years how many times similar situation occured? If it has happened for the first time, give a chance and try to find out the proper reason for his action. If it is frequently repeated problem,it is high time that u take a proper decision of forgetting him. For any problem analyse the things before taking any decision.
2006-12-31 12:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kandi B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i can solve this problem correctly. okay, what you need to do is tell him your feelings. tell him how you want him to talk to you and don't ignore you. tell him in a personal nice way. go in a quiet room in your house when noone else is home but you two. there is nothing wrong with telling your lover your personal feelings. especially if you have known him for the past 6 years. or if really want him to talk to you, talk about something that will make both of you guys excited. then he will be happy. give him some really good chocolate or candy like sour punches. they say you get happy from chocolate or candy. buy him something he likes as a gift to make him happy. plan to go to six flags or somewhere or vacation.
2006-12-31 04:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has rightly said...
If u love someone , set him free.. if he comes back it is yours. If he doesn't it was never your.
So i think to live d life with the person who loves you is much better choice than to live with the person u Love..
Looks to be difficult to digest when u love a person for more than 6 years. Ya i can understand ur state of mind..
Ok do one thing.. with some patience .. ignore that person for some time. If he has anything for u in his heart he will approach u. If he has nothing in his heart for U then it is just waste of time. Be practical... LIFE IS LIKE THIS MY DEAR AND WE HAVE TO ACCEPT IT THIS WAY ONLY
2006-12-31 04:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sandeep G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the only one that can get an attitude... come right back at him... two can play that game... give him a dose of his own medicine... next time he does something you don't like cop an attitude, give him the cold shoulder for a few days... and next time he give you the silent treatment... ignore him... he's trying to get you to beg whats wrongs... don't be mad... I love you...
In time if you stick to this... he will slack off the ego trip... hope this helps... good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 04:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, means u tackle your loved ones ? I think ur guy needs time for himself, so plz give him some space. May be something going on with his life that u are not aware of.
I wish u pplz will be better Gud Lk
2006-12-31 04:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know what to do and what to expect from him. Why settle. Start the New year off right. you deserve better. 18 days is a ridiculous amount of time for you to be waiting. Is this what you want to look forward to? '-)
2006-12-31 04:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if u r in this type of problem then i have a one suggestion to u if u love him lot and also he also love u lot then do one thing be away from him for sometime and just discuss in phone only don't contact at any reason and he feel the loneliness and then after he will talk to u normally and ur problem will be solved
2006-12-31 04:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have large ego. He sounds like a narcissist.
Take book our on that subject. No one should have power over someone else.I married my best friend.
I am in love and married
Lady Jane
2006-12-31 04:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋