and I used to have a crush on him (This happened in Middle School) NOWI moved to a different city, I am in High School and became HOT and very SEXY but I have developed a problem with not being able to EVER stare or look at any guy I am attracted to, fearing I will get the same response.. I can't keep eye contact..The funny thing is now so many guys stare at me (some I find very attractive but I can't look at them..again the fear...) and it's weird because not being able to keep eye contact makes me seem unapproachable.. How do I fix this? Thanks
2006-12-31 03:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I knew too. It's funny how on occassions I can look people in the eyes calmly but most of the time I can't. I really hate not being able to do it. I wish I could tell you an easy way of getting over this problem. I developed a problem with this after somebody once told me I had weird eyes!!
2006-12-31 03:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly is such a harsh word. I don't like to use the word ugly. I don't think you were ever ugly, you may have been going through an awkward phase. I think you should start with erasing the word ugly out of your vocabulary, and start seeing yourself and other people for who they really are. Everyone has a different look. Maybe you should start looking at people, and just think of a description for them to yourself. You'll not only have a more elaborate vocabulary, but you may be able to look people in the eye again. After all, you have to look at a person to describe them. Hope this helps.
2006-12-31 11:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.
listen. you have changed from what you have said.
you should have developed your confidence from the trauma you have gone to.
the guy who said **** to you is a jerk. he brings shame to the society of men. he should not have done that in the first place.
do the eye contact to the guys who stare at you and im assuring you they will not do the same thing your crush did to you.
maybe your crush is gay. im really mad at these guys who think they do not want to be an eye candy for girls like you.
they should be proud that they have an admirer.
if you have a guy friend. try to stare at him and be used to it. and if you ever see your old crush again... try to stare at him. im sure he will not say the same thing again.
2006-12-31 11:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE PROBLEM IS YOU BOUGHT INTO WHAT THAT A77HOLE SAID TOO YOU------THAT BECAME A NEGATIVE TURNING POINT IN YOUR LIFE-----REMEMBER YOU HAVE THE POWER NOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE NOW------SO TAKE THAT POOP WHERE IT CAME FROM-----IT CAME FROM SOMEONE WHO DIDN'T KNOW YOU AND HAD HIS OWN ISSUES
AB
2006-12-31 11:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by alice b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and stare them in the eye because if u dont then people will think ur ugly again
2006-12-31 11:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by bobblehead_93 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask the wizard for some courage
2006-12-31 11:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
PM me sometime.
2007-01-01 22:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm...i like applesauce, u?
2006-12-31 11:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋