Hi guys. I had met my late husband while o holiday in 203. As I was in my last year of studying & he was in his prime with a top modelling career we had gotten married & supported each other in decisions & everything else,as we stood as a couple.
We had gotten married in December of 2003. Durin 2004 January he was on the ramps again which I did not mind at all. At the end of the 2004 year I had found out that I was pregnant. He was over the moon & really extatic about the whole having a child idea.. Durin my pregnancy I had lost the children (yes we were told we were having twins) He took time off work as we were both excited about having the babies & getting things ready. Had a miscaridge at seven months.
He had met up in a car crash in early parts of morning coming from a show & shoot.Some drunk guy drove into him puttin him into accoma which he never recovered from & had passed away a few months later. Is there anyway someone could get over loosing husband & child in a year?
2006-12-31 03:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
First off my goddness iam so sorry!!!! Which doesnt mean anything but iam truly sorry you story was so scary to read it could happen to anyone. I lost my grandmother and my aunt which raised me when i was little beacuse i had no mother all in two months. There is no answer out there even though that is all you want!!! You have to stay strong and that will be the worst part!! You have to let all your emotions thru and deal with them and try your hardest to move on!!! Iam sure you fell lost and hopeless but you cant !!! I wish i could help you i really do!! but you need to confide in someone to help you its too scary all alone!! I know this might sound weird but if you want someone to talk to my email is tara_tiger83@yahoo just incase you have nobody to talk to i would hate for you to have to deal with it alone and i will pray for you to make it thru this
2006-12-31 03:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by tara_tiger83 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that you could ever totally get over something like that. This situation is absolutely unthinkable to me. I cant imagine surviving something like that. I know that life goes on and you just have to get through each day the best that you can.
Hopefully you have friends and family that are supportive and are a source of strength and comfort to you.
In my professional opinion, I think you should seek counseling. I know I wouldnt be able to get through something like this on my own, if at all. I definitely would need professional help...and a lot of time. Just be kind to yourself and dont expect too much.
2006-12-31 11:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by jenniferaboston 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG. I was going to answer you with sympathy, but after reading your previous question about putting your sons in boarding schools and that you & your husband are considering it, well, you are truly disturbed.
Why -Why -Why would you waste all of our time like this? Do you take pleasure in getting sympathy from others so you create sick stories like this to get our sympathy? That is really sad and simply pathetic. YOU NEED HELP.
2006-12-31 11:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Singthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your tragic lose. The only way to make it through all of this is by keeping your faith in God. He does everything for a reason. Even though you may feel all alone, your not, he is there every day right beside you.
2006-12-31 13:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bison0809 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well considering that in your previous questions of 2 days ago u spoke of your husband being alive, well and considering sending your kids to boarding school. i think u are LYING!!! which makes u a very sick and disturbed person. On these forums people have genuinely lost babies to miscarriages so please think a little before u make such wild lies up, and get yourself some counselling!!! u are one sick, illiterate puppy
2006-12-31 11:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer your question.Let me just tell you that I'm really sorry for you and all I can do for you is to wish you sincerely a merry New Year.Don't give up and keep the people you love into your heart.Stronger than death is love.
2006-12-31 11:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Brenno 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can only deal with it a day at a time a hour at a time a min at a time. im sure life doesnt seem worth living right now.you got through it so far.God be with you.
2006-12-31 11:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry about this. It may help if you go get some councilling. Or a support group. Again I am sorry
2006-12-31 11:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Biker 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is hard to lose a loved one, but you must move on and start dating again
2006-12-31 11:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Dean V 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋