ok my bf cheated on me.....but he said they didnt do much just a little kiss and they went to the movies and he put his arm around her he also said it meant nothing to him, but he does like her, but he loves me&&thats why hes fighting for me back ((i broke up w/ him when i found out)) &&he wants a 2nd chance to go back out w/ me.......SHOULD I GIVE HIM A 2ND CHANCE????!!!!!
2006-12-31 03:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by sexii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
((**were 14**))
2006-12-31 03:44:03 · update #1
Whats worse. Him cheating on you with someone that means something, or he cheated on you with someone that means nothing. If it takes that little for him to cheat, how much to you really mean to him?
You broke up with him for a reason BEFORE you knew he cheated. That is two strikes against him. Don't wait around for a third. Every time you think of him, think of him in the arms around that girl. That will put things in perspective.
2006-12-31 03:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your view is not acceptable. It's not like that guy's always cheat. There are so many points like, Lust, Opposite sex attraction and lack of self confidence. There is one more possiblity that if some girl cheated him then he is satisfying himself by cheating other girls. Or Simply... after achieving his goal he simply put u in trashbin. But dont loose your confidence because of that guy. Life is so beautiful and small so enjoy each and every moments... either ups or downs.
2016-05-22 23:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I really don't know..................... again, you have to "tap" into your intuition and see what it tells you!
Each person is different!
Your guy isn't one to be trusted. I know, it's hard though, when THEY "Crawl back" and KISS UP, BUT, how much feelings do you have invested in each other? Ask urself!
Maybe you both should "Play the field" and let him get jealous seeing you with another guy THEN see his reaction! If he really LOVES you, he WILL FIGHT for you, and only then I'd just date him after and make him WIN your respect and see how things go!
If he DOES love you, he won't look at "Another" again!
TRUST ME!
2006-12-31 03:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
i have this relative. also the same situation as yours.
this girl saw the guy with the girl in the mall. (the guy really doing pda stuffs). 3 months later after they broke up the guy wanted to go back to the girl and the girl gave the guy a second chance thinking that the guy changed after 3 months. but in 2 weeks the girl caught him with another girl. and from then on until now she does not want to go back to the guy.
the guy keeps on calling her and tried to go to her house but his dad (my uncle) blocked from his way. from then on the guy did not call.
i do not want to happen that to you. so i strongly suggest NO.
if he did it once, he can do it again.
but its all in your decision. i cannot do anything if you love the guy.
im just here to help. but if you do not want to ruin your life for the guy that already cheated on you. then please do not give him the 2nd chance.
2006-12-31 03:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more chances. Us guys will take that as weakness and do it again. We have a hard enough time resisting other females when we aren't allowed to. If you give him another chance its like giving him permission because he knows you will take him back.
2006-12-31 03:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not. Do you think you will be able to trust him from now on? Would he be willing to give you the second chance if you were kissing another guy?
2006-12-31 03:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by mrsmopar2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone you want to be with them....not take others out with "a little kiss" etc..He is showing his immaturity here and not ready to make a true committment to you.
Love means trust....can you trust him again? thats what you have to ask yourself.
2006-12-31 03:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find that most men will cheat ,at one time or another.
its how many times you can forgive him. get rid,theres plenty of others out there.u might find a guddun
2006-12-31 03:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by busby58 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THATS NOT CHEATING. THAT IS KIDS BEING KIDS. NOW GET OFF THE COMPUTER AND PLAY WITH YOUR DOLLS. THIS SITE IS FOR ADULTS.
2006-12-31 03:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack him real hard and then tell him you forgive him for cheating
2006-12-31 03:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by forex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋