i REALLY like this guy
i need a guys perspective but girls can help too
i want him as my bf
how do i get into his arms??
2006-12-31 03:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by ashied404 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is single but probably not on the market for long, so should i ask him out??
2006-12-31 05:23:33 · update #1
Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Better to let him know then to know that you've never told him. Maybe he feels the exact same way as you. Simple as that! Honesty! Honesty! Honesty! '-)
2006-12-31 03:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep this in the back of your mind. Some guys like the ability to choose. Don't pressure him too much. If you clutter him, he may think you're too easy and go for someone else. Are you his type? Do you know what he wants in a gf? Do you have the qualities he admires? How much do you both have in common? Is he ready to settle down with a gf? Are you both very good friends? There are so many other questions I'd like to ask, but there are so many.
Above all this, be patient. I know it's hard, but keep the communication line open. Return his calls, call him and say hi, ask him about something of interest to you. Ask him his views on the news, but don't stay on the phone without talking. If he's interested in talking, that's a good thing. If he doesn't want to talk, or gives you an excuse all the time and never talks, then you should try other methods of getting through to him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-31 11:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, First and most relevant point is you can't own someone. However if what you mean is that you would like him to become your boyfriend only you may wish to consider the fact that you have mention that you would like him as your own which indicates he is with other people at present so work out what you can provide him with in order for him to change the cycle he's in. Secondly we all want something we can't have so make sure it's not just a case of ego !!! either way put your best foot forward as he probably won't stay single for long. Good luck.
2006-12-31 11:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, many guys like myself, are VERY shy to ask someone ouut, so there is nothing wrong with u making the 1st move.
just get to know him, and when you think you know him well enough just ask if u wanna see a movie with him. BUT, be sure to include the word "date", so the guy know you wanna be his gf, not just a friend
and if u get rejected, it will be no big deal
2006-12-31 11:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have anything in common with him? Do you have classes with him?
Be yourself. Try to find something that you two have in common and try to hang out with him and get to know him. You want him as your friend first, then blossom out from there.
2006-12-31 11:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.go,smile and then tell him this question that u asked us.It work. belive me.Good luck!
2006-12-31 11:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by bahar_v1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend. let him kno you, tell him u like him, then like him more, then more, then love, then, go out
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simple steps
2006-12-31 11:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Guitar.Soul.101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋