he can't live like this .Not a serious fight .What is going on?
2006-12-31 03:16:38 · 23 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's how my husband fights with me too. It's pretty confusing. We actually get along very well, but do have the occasional fight (probably 4-6 times a year)...and he pulls lines like that every time! Last time, after the fight was over, when he was apologizing...I asked him why he always said that. I told him I felt like we got along pretty well. Guess what? He said he did too. He said that he just said that because he thought that *I* felt that way! I guess he was just testing the waters...or simply feeling that way only in the moment. Men can be just as confusing as women sometimes.
2006-12-31 03:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing that comes to mind is overall maturity. You didn't say how old you two are but I am guessing teens to early twenties. The guy probably cares about you but may be having difficulty trying to decide if he is ready for a real comittment.
All couples fight or disagree about things but when you have a real bond and when you are mature enough, you can talk about it and realize that it isn't the end of the world to have an arguement. Try talking to him, telling him exactly what's on your mind. If this make him or you very uncomfortable, then you just don't have it....
2006-12-31 11:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by londonmh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time then just ask if he needs a little break and maybe go out to ice cream and talk to him in the park, don't tell him right when he walks in the door cause that will just start a whole nother fight,
2006-12-31 11:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by BITSIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ....how long have yall been together???
2nd of all.....I'v come to relize that SOME guys just say stuff cause it sounds good.
Now once yall hit a bumpy road he wants to call it quits.
I would just talk to him about it. Ask him if he wants a relationship with you or not.
Tell him every relationship has bumpy roads but they are possible to get through.
And if he wants "out".
Move on.....their is so many more great guys in this world. And im sure one is looking for a girl just like you.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-12-31 11:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Country Girl 08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are grown up now. What he wants is clear. His demands for sexual relation is not airy. Everybody of this age at least have a hysteria for that. But it is you who have given so much liberty to him to think of that. Be careful and be reserve to boyfriends. Everybody will have this demands and he is not wrong because the very bases of relationship is sex and nothing else. Dont cleverly befools yourself. And dont show your unawareness. Your body language has offered and encouraged him to ask these questions. Be honest to yourself at least. You yourself are not clear what to answer. You have even not setup standards for boy friends before commencing the relationship. Or otherwise you favour all this like other girls of you age indulging in sexual relations.
2006-12-31 11:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like typical bf/gf stuff. Take it with a grain of salt and if he does want to stay together let him know that you will not put up with him "calling it off" every time you two have a disagreement. That's just nerve wracking! Good Luck! My best to the drama queen in your life. lol! '-)
2006-12-31 11:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he met someone else that means more to him then you. How long have you been dating this guy? Long enough to trust him with your secrets or just a one month thing. Well anyway i think that it is typical maybe he is using you to get to someone else have you thought of that? I hope i didn't hurt your feelings or anything but look at the possibilities.
2006-12-31 11:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry too much about that. It's just normal for a guy to feel that way periodically. In short you should not give much importance to what a guy says before and after.
2006-12-31 11:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He thinks that acting like this, it will make you feel sorry for him and give in to him. Don't give in. Disappear for a couple of days. It will show him that you arent going to put up with a immature baby.
2006-12-31 11:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool down. Men and Women alike say all sorts of things when they are mad. I don't know why, but they do. Talk to him after all the smoke rolls away and it will work out better.
2006-12-31 11:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋