well my bf well now ex boyfriend said he love over and over agian and then the next week i found out he was cheating on me with my best friend and now he told me to give him another chance so i did and i am afraid that the same thing will keep happening over and over again and don't know if i can trust him when he says i love you with all my heart for ever and ever. the thing is is it for ever or until i find out how he is also dating !!!!:():
2006-12-31 03:03:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see where your coming from girlfriend!!this guy sounds like a jerk who is just using you and the words I love you to get what he wants!harsh as it may sound why dont you just ditch him and move on 2007 is bound to bring someone wonderful into your life that actually deserves you and you them!good luck honey and please dont be fooled by his I love yous!Happy nu year!xx
2006-12-31 03:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing will keep happening over and over again. You know it, he knows it, you have given him permission to do it, the world knows it, the universe knows it, your friends know it, so why do you accept a liar, cheat, person who says love without ever meaning it? Were you abused as a child???? Did you fall on your head? Are you missing a gene? What part of I love you BUT I'll do your best friend or anyone else I encounter translates into monogamy and trust for you?
Dump him and go get therapy to see why you would put up with such BS from a man you arent even married to. Dating, bf/gf is just about finding out who you build a wonderful relationship with....he's already given you his profile and credentials and they are revolting. What would you say to your daughter (if you HAD one) if she had the same experience?
2006-12-31 11:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying, "Action speaks louder than words"? Well, a person that loves you puts that "love" into action. They call you, care about you and want the very best for you. They are sweet and kind and loving to you. They shouldn't be cheating on you with your best friend. If he cheated on you the first time, he will probably do it again. Just now, he will think that he can get away with it. Dump him. There are more fish in the sea. Besides, he was with your girlfriend. Let her have him.
2006-12-31 11:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sisters Husband Cheated on her and she was going through the same thing you are going through, but he hasn't done it since , and that was a year ago. So it could be love level is low but you know the same thing kinda happened to me. Mf BF went out with my Bff also, and I was wanting to take hime back, but he wasn't, and i'm not saying that you should be there each time he falls, But you know guys can screw up sometimes and you just have to give him some slack thats all.
I hope everything works out for you 2.
2006-12-31 11:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by BITSIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound smart enough to already know he's a liar. Your best friend obviously isn't your best friend either. But if you forgave him, then she deserves the same respect. He WILL do it again though. No matter how much he says he loves you. Men (boys) say what they think you want to hear to get what they want from you. I kept taking a boyfriend back over and over, forgiving his cheating telling myself he loved me deep down inside, and because he kept saying he did. Several years later he got one of our mutual friends pregnant. That was the last straw for me (FINALLY!!!) Now I found a good man and have never looked back. You will only receive as much respect as you ask for.
2006-12-31 11:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by armageddonbutterfly82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st-How old are you?
If you guys are still in High school and he's cheating on you,
it's a good bet that he's a LIAR!!!!
2nd-If he cheated on you with your best friend, then your best
friends dirty and he obviously doesn't care about your
feelings.
3rd-A guy/boy is only going to treat you as good as you make
him...If you he plays you and you let him(by taking him back
and letting it be ok) then he knows he can do it again and
probably will. However, no one can tell you who to trust or
who to love, but if the thought that he is cheating on you
is always in the back of your mind when you aren't
together, then it's probably best to move on anyways.
2006-12-31 11:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Juicy Fruit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey, he doesn't mean it...he doesn't know what love is (and neither do you, yet). Those are just words that young people know often have an effect on others, so they use them.
Love is one of the most misused words in the english language...you'll both figure out what it REALLY means when you are older and more mature...for now, don't use it and don't believe it...
2006-12-31 11:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own definition of love. So he probably meant it, which is even sadder when you think that his definition of love means it is ok to cheat. When you are with the next guy, ask the question, how do you define love. That will tell you alot. Try to find someone who loves the way you do.
2006-12-31 11:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Xxar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, no matter what he sais to you, do NOT take him back. If he tells you that he loves you after he's already cheated on you, then it's all lies to get you to sleep with him again.
Tell him that if he really loves you, then he would have never done that to you.
Be a strong woman and don't let him control you.
2006-12-31 11:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by GingerMoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy keeps saying he loves more often then usual it means somethings wrong...
Otherwise I guess its just a guys way of telling a girl he cares and always will...
Personally I don't think you should trust him anymore but thats just me..
2006-12-31 11:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋