I have recently split up with my boyfriend and i really got on wiht his parents. I havent been able to say goodbye properly and have written them a card to say that its been nice getting to know them and im sorry for the way things have worked out and wishing them the best for the future. Should i send it? Or will my ex think bad of me?
2006-12-31 02:47:14 · 28 answers · asked by scarlett0811 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sending a card with your respects for his parents would never be a bad thing. Your ex shouldn't think bad of you for it and his parents will be glad to hear from you and know that you enjoyed getting to know them. They will think more highly of you as a result of your thoughtfulness.
2006-12-31 02:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gr8Av8or 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself here, are you sending it on the off chance that something may come of it with your ex? If not then send it. If you still have feelings for your ex and you do want to get back with him make sure its the right thing to do after all he is an ex for a reason. Girl be strong in this world and know you are beautiful, strong and independent lean on know one but yourself then you will always no the out come. Sometimes it's hard to walk away but boy the world opens up a whole new life for you. Just sit and ask yourself this question because im sure you already know the answer. Stay safe out there and have a great new year full of love and happiness. lyn x
2006-12-31 02:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by oldshoespoetry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!
There's nothing worse than an ex-girlfriend trying to stay friends with the ex's parents! The subtext of any contact is 'I'm a nice person, please tell your son to be my boyfriend again'.
Your ex, and his parents, will think you're pathetic and may turn into a stalker.
Put it down, keep your self respect and move on.
2006-12-31 02:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by salvationcity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to go ahead and send it. Don't worry about what your ex thinks. Your relationship wtih his parents is separate and can still continue or end gracefully with the card. I say send the card. It shows character and strength.
2006-12-31 02:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I definitely think you should. Especially if you used to get on very well with them.
Obviously they were not responsible for you guys breaking up and will feel hurt that you just turn your back on them.
A card is not too much; It's respectful and also a kind gesture.
Yes, do it.
Good luck.
2006-12-31 03:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if the ex has nothing to do with it, the relationship with his parents is totally separate and does not concern him. Don't let one man stand in the way of you making friendships.
2006-12-31 03:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send it...just because you two didnt make it there is no need in not being nice and respectful to the parents
2006-12-31 02:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by misty_51273 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your ex thinks he's your ex! as long as you are sending the card because you did truly get on with his parents and not to make him feel bad its fine.
2006-12-31 02:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by sammy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you would want to send the card,but it may seem to the boyfriend as an attempt to contact him as well !
2006-12-31 02:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋