Turned down, what to do?
i was turned down, and been keeping busy to move on, but when i see her, im bothered again..there are times i still think of her although not as much as before...its weird bcoz after she turned me down, she hugged me twice, usually after we havent met for awhile (we agreed to be just friends--uhm, were both girls)...anyway, is it better off not to see her anymore at all? how did it work for you guys?
i already told her before that i still find it awkward to be friends..
we never really had a relationship, just attraction but we cant hold a long conversation!!
2006-12-31 02:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is hard, especially when you still have feelings. You just have to remember that she already told you where she stands. Still be friends. Apparently you guys stuff in common to be good friends, so stick with that. If you find it is to hard for you, then stop until you are comfortable, but let her know what is going on so you can salvage a friendship later.
2006-12-31 02:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl but you're screen name is Vincent? Anyway - I'm in a similar situation. You need time and distraction. Being a round her and hugging her is not good for you unless you think you can win her over. You're best to find a new best friend / partner. perhaps some time down the road, maybe at a wild party next year you two might hook up. Go to some parties and meet some new girls or guys ... be safe!
2006-12-31 10:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never hurts to have too many friends
2006-12-31 10:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Aviator1013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋