I was wondering if it could be possible that a girl dumps a guy in the purpose of hurting him ...something like "I will make him , yearn on me until he craves ..." .."he will be alone and he will think of me making love to my other man" .."he will spend his days masturbating while he thinks of me" , but I will never come back to show him what he has lost ...!! do you think there are some bad girls like that ?
2006-12-31 02:29:18 · 24 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess the same could be said about a guy. Only immature people please mind games and not care about feelings.
2006-12-31 04:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on the situation. 1) If you really care about him but it just isn't working out for whatever reason, it's gonna make you feel bad. You don't want to hurt people you love/care for. 2) If he was a jerk to the girl then yes, she has the right to act like a *****. 3) Dumping someone is tough. You don't know how the person will react (anger, crying, indifference). So after it's done a slight feeling of relief is normal.
2016-05-22 23:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do think there are girls like that. As a matter of a fact I KNOW there is because I've seen it hapen. They pretty much have no feelings for the guy and are probably very insecure about themself because they feel they need to hurt others in order for someone to be wanting them. Some girls just think it's a big game and a big joke. And I think that is very rude. How would they like it if the tables were turned?
2006-12-31 02:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by sparkzxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...payback is just a happy extra. Egos aside...women dump guys because they realise that its not going anywhere because they dont feel loved, feel cornered or just not inlove anymore etc. Love is never about how the other person feels its how YOU feel (or her) while you are together. Lots of arguments will generate bad feelings BUT its just a symptom of personalities not jelling.
Bad girls can be good girls and good girls can be bad ones....it depends on how the chemistry works out between couples. Most people just want peace though......and that doesnt always work out. Hardly ever does or we'd be falling in love with everyone and never settling for "the one".
2006-12-31 02:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, there are . but dont get me wrong i am not one of them im a proud mother to be playing games......but i do have Friends that have done that stuff to me and some still do 2 years later....but he keeps going back and forth.......so i guess that one goes both ways......some women NOT ALL just have it in there head that games are FUN AND TO SHOW others they have the man wrapped or tied to them and no one else......but some do it just to find out how much the man really loves them after they are gone.....some men cant show it and have a hard time sharing there fellings ....some women jsut have to do other things do find that out
2006-12-31 02:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by sunwind25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I just dumped my bf but, it wasn't because, I wanted to hurt him deliberately. First off when a woman has had enough and begins to think about herself she knows that she can't bare another moment. Instead of holding on to something that won't work or appears to still be moving in the same direction down the drain it doesn't leave her with much hope.
So, choosing to depart a relationship when one isn't working for you helps to make both of you better people. It allows for you to see your mistakes and for her to grow.
2006-12-31 02:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nella The QT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
Some women like to feel as if everyone wants them. It helps them feel more secure about themselves.
It's like a girl on myspace that has 80 billion friends just adding more to her collection because it makes her feel wanted. Everyone comments the same thing "you are sexy".
And she is happy.
Then again some women are just plain vindictive and evil.
Try finding some one else, it would be the best thing for both of you! Easier said than done, I know.
Don't waste your time with her game you will not be able to win.
2006-12-31 02:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fisticuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are women like that...absolutely...and there are guys like that too. I know a guy whose girlfriend broke up with him...he managed to get her back but did it for the sole purpose of breaking up with her.
People do wierd things...they can be cruel and hurtful and selfish...we are likely to run into plenty of those kinds of people in our lives...I try to think of it as helping me appreciate the kewl people when I meet them.
2006-12-31 02:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. it generally means that they have been hurt by a man at some point in their lives so all men are guilty. Its pretty common in the dating world nowdays.
And this one goes both ways actually
2006-12-31 02:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think many people get off on it, yes. But don't judge the whole tree on a few bad apples (that's what my Grand- Pappy would say)
2007-01-02 03:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by polar bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that, and if any guy believes they are then they don't get out much but i do believe that there may be a few women in the world like that, but get over her and find a new girl and see how she acts to that one, good luck and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
2006-12-31 02:32:37 · answer #11 · answered by JennLee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋