Okay I have this friend who I have known since high school. Me and her are always hanging out and doing stuff together. Everytime we chill though sometimes she goes on and on about her b/f and all of these guys who like her even when I dont ask. Plus she calls me constantly. What I dont get is if you have b/f why would you be calling and hanging with your buddies more than him? I mean dont get me wrong I dont have nothing against having a relationship and buddies but usually when someone enters into a relationship I would expect the time with your friends to decrease not increase. I would be heated if my girl was talking to another guy and chilling with them more than she did with me. I guess what I'm trying to ask is this just a game to make me jealosu for no apparent reason or does she have another motive behind it?
2006-12-31 02:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her. Remember that we all have different perceptions on what relationships should be like. I found it atrocious that my first gf didn't drop everyone in her life to only spend time with me. As time passes and you go through different relationships you realize how unhealthy that is. Nothing wrong with having friend's and if her bf is o.k. with it then no one else should have a problem. Sounds like she thinks highly of you and really appreciates your friendship. You should ask her straight out if there are any alterior motives. honesty! honesty! honesty!
2006-12-31 02:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welps just from a girls point of view. It can mean alot of different things just depending I guess. First, u guys have known each other since high school so maybe its just that shes so comfortable around u. If she has a bf and spending more time with u then theres something definitely wrong, either shes not happy with her current relationship or being that she knows u fo an "X" amount of years mayb she wants u to step up and ask how she is doing with her bf. She might just need someone to talk to. Shes not trying to make u jealous. Callin u constantly, well does she see u like a best friend or some sort? OR mayb at one point she did see something or wanted something between the two of u at one time. I know these answers are so broad. But its one way or another. Just hit me up on YM to ask me. Again this is all just my opinion. P.S. I agree with u with that calling anotha person if ur involved.
Hope this helps a bit,
Vhee
2006-12-31 10:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vhee A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn man, it looks as if she considers you to just be a really close friend and that maybe to her you are someone she can confide more in than others, perhaps even more than her girl friends. As to the jealousy thing, I highly doubt that it is what she is trying to accomplish, you seem to be important to her if she is willing to take time to hang with you instead of her bf. So i wouldnt worry about any motive or anything she just seems to trust you alot and likes to confide things with you.
2006-12-31 10:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she even has a boyfriend???It sounds like she likes you and is trying to make you jealous or trying to get you to make a move on her. If a person is calling you all the time that means they are thinking about you. I think she likes you and is trying to get you jealous and then to act upon it.
2006-12-31 10:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is probably trying to make you jealous. She probably wants to get a reaction from you when she tells you about these other guys. I'm guessing she wants to be more than a friend to you......
2006-12-31 10:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by honestly sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a BF and does that to him, if she gets with you, she will do the same thing to you eventually.
2006-12-31 10:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Xxar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would think you'd know with your screen name....
lolz
2006-12-31 10:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋