2006-12-31 01:52:51 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe it is yes,this part of a relationship is important and i believe it tells you alot about a person-if they are caring and compassionate etc.i feel this has to be experienced for you to grow and mature together in a relationship as long as you are both happy and old enough then theres no reason why not.its your life and you have to have experiences to learn and grow.
2006-12-31 02:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by sammy06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely legal, but whether or not its OK is completely up to your own beliefs. If you're a devoted member of a religion that doesn't believe in sex before marriage - then it isn't. These days that's mostly the only reason that some people save themselves for it.
But also, you're own conscience might want for you to have that fairytale marriage where you lose your virginity on your wedding night - its just that the guy most probably won't be a virgin himself!
Its completely up to you, though - don't let anybody pressure you into thinking EITHER of the two options is the right choice.
2006-12-31 02:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me, its perfectly ok, tho only you can answer this question because we dont know what your morals or religion are.
Personally, if the sex isnt good, I wouldnt want to stay with that person. I know sex isnt the be all and end all, but it is a very important factor of a relationship. If you both get good sex, the chances are your relationship will work out pretty well.
Go and have some fun :)
2006-12-31 02:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by sel2k00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Matrimony between a guy and a woman is a sacred union, ordered in the direction of a definite purpose, and blessed by utilising God. Matrimony between every physique different than a guy and a woman isn't a sacred union, is heavily disordered and offensive to the two God and guy, and is detailed by utilising God as an extremely abominable offense, which cries out to heaven for vengeance. From a in basic terms sensible point of view, ANY married heterosexual couple, no be counted how heavily sinful or disordered of their habit, can nevertheless finally serve the point for which God created them. NO gay couple can. background additionally teaches that a society which embraces and condones homosexuality isn't likely to survive very lots longer.
2016-10-28 19:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will start by saying it all depends on your morals and how you feel about sex before marriage how comfortable you are with the idea. I have a phase that i use, "try before you buy". its best that you find out if you are compatible with each other. for example you may find that your wife or husband to be may not want sex as much or as little as you. There may like certain sexual practises that you may not like.
2006-12-31 12:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your own beliefs. I personally believe that it's better to experience this part of the relationship before you get married because it plays such a huge role in the marriage. To many horrow stories of people who waited and then realized the sex was horrible. TOO LATE?! '-)
2006-12-31 01:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I assume you have some religious code that does not like fornication and warns of dire punishment if you do. That is hogwash! You are not going to hell for a bit of love, anyone that tells you that you will should not be listened to as they are probably much more depraved sexually than you could ever be.
It is perfectly OK. If you buy a bed that will last all your life, you should test the mattress first.
2006-12-31 03:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay to have sex before marriage for a multitude of reasons. First, when you have sex with somebody, there is an emotional bond formed whether you intended for it to be or not. When you split up, that bond is severed and you each end up with some emotional baggage from the experience. Second, having sex with somebody before making that committment shows a complete lack of respect for them. You are treating them like an object to satisfy your desires, not like another human being. Third, no form of birth control is 100% effective and no method of trying to prevent a sexually transmitted disease is 100% effective. Promiscuity puts both of you at an increased risk of disease and for a woman, it increases her chances of cervical cancer and infertility later in life.
Waiting until after you are married to have sex and then being monogamous once you are married is the only absolute way of avoiding unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, and all the other ill side effects of premarital sex. Moral reasoning aside, it is still best to wait.
2006-12-31 02:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Gr8Av8or 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
of come on are you living in the dark ages or what most people dont even get married anymore once your over the legal age of course and been with your partner awhile and remember always use CONDOMS
2006-12-31 02:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Donot try to legalise every matter. Can love be legalised ? The person whom you will allow to have sex with you before marriage will never have full faith in your virginity ...i.e. honesty... one and only one base of successful married life.
One can live without bread for many days with a smile but can not live togather for a second if have doubts on the integrity of other partner.In these days of economic and financial GROWTH it is called adjustment in accounting term.But married life is much more than Accountancy. If defined correctly it is complete worship of GOD.When you have controlled yourself upto legalised age please for my sake control till marriage. BIRTHDAY
Cake can be eaten at ANY time. Law will never come in the way. But after a due gathering of singing and dancing human beings and after due celeberation of cutting and all those rituals when it is eaten by the hand of beloved one...it is certainly more tasty.
Baby control your self. Indian if you are have more scientific rituals then mere formalities. Enjoy them. Wait ...wait... . Tasty dishes become more tasty when HUNGER mature fully.
When so called motherinlaw or sister in law takes a bride to a honeymoon room all the heavens come in the feet of Bride.One thing I will advise you ..celebrate yor first night at your house...among relatives. After that go to any where on the earth.
Intzaar aur abhi... aur abhi... aur abhi...and I may clear you from my own experience ...The real enjoyment of esxual life is in WAIT ..intercourse has never been more joyful then WAIT. It is rather ...I dont have words... ENDS IN HATE almost in 99 % cases. Because they dont even know correct methods of ever lasting satisfaction and enjoyment by sexual relations.
One last thing , I have been with my wife for six months before marriage...I dont even touch her...and the result is that..even if my wife see me even naked with a woman she will never belive that it was I. Our belief was so fixed inthose six months. If you are honest in sexual life you are honest in all other things. Take it granted.
Moreover If your partner insist /compelled you to have sex with you. and dont have control in the matter ..remember always he is not a person to be taken as honest inany auspect of LIFE.
Virginity can not be lost in any childish experimental manner too.
2006-12-31 02:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋