My boyfriend dumped me today news years eve. We were together for 4 years. I dont know how iam supposed to have a good night and how iam going to surive this next new year.
2006-12-31 01:45:38 · 24 answers · asked by mandaloo_mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
il show you a good time baybeh ;]
2006-12-31 01:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dear,
What a jerk!
Obviously he couldn't wait to be free of you babe. What does that tell you?
He's nothing you probably thought he was and nothing you wouldn't want in a decent guy.
He's not decent; not sensitive.
He's selfish, cruel and probably never loved you.
Sorry, but if he could hurt you in that way, it does say quite a lot about him.
Try and pick up the pieces.
It's New year's Eve.
Try and think about what you want to happen in your life. ( having him back is not an option.)
What are the qualities you're looking for in a boy friend.( sure, he never had those.)
I know it's hard. Allow yourself to cry, but think of a fresh start for yourself; That's the best revenge and medecine.
Happy New Year babe. You're worth it.xxx
2006-12-31 10:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will survive sweetie. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, even if you cant see it right now.
No one is saying its going to be an easy road getting over him, but you just have to take each day as it comes. There is no rule book either, so go with the flow.
Spend this time with your friends and family. Cry as much as you want to cry and dont feel embarrassed about it.
All the best :)
2006-12-31 10:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by sel2k00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I feel your pain. The best you can do and think positive. Its going to be a new year, a new day, think of it as a new life without him. Start the new year off fresh, you can find someone else that will care about you and love you. He obvisiously doesn't seem like he loved you so much if he left you, so then be happy to get that negative engery out of your life. Its a new year, so just remember time heals all, Good luck hun!
2006-12-31 09:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by vwbabe7463 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off sorry but we have to try and look at this positively,as there is no need you being sad because of him!everyone will say the same old things and you will not believe a word of it-but honestly what they say is true they have experienced this and learnt from it.You will get over this but it will be hard-try to be around people you love and make you smile this new year,try to think positively that he obviously isn't the one as he has done this you may have been drifting apart but just ignored the signs.There is a new year out there for you to meet new people,experience new things and learn what others have to give...it will be fine TRUST ME please try to smile and look forward to the future......here's thinking of you and the fun your going to have!
"whatever will be will be, the futures not ours to see!"
2006-12-31 10:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by sammy06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard. Sorry to hear about that. Remember that you are not the first or last person to be dumped. You will get over it. It may not seem like it will get better. But time is healer. Go out and enjoy yourself. The biggest loser is the ex-boyfriend.
2006-12-31 09:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll survive. It's hard at first so don't expect it to go away soon.
Best thing you can do is go out with some friends and try and have a good time. I hope the pain eases quickly. Good luck.
2006-12-31 10:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by stanno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Begin thinking about all the new things you can experience in the coming year without him. Go to a party and meet your new future boyfriend. New Year's is about new things and leaving old things behind. You're only going to live once. DOn't get too atached to life situations you can't control. As they say, move on.
2006-12-31 09:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to hear that. I would suggest to try and have a fun tonite with friends and family and then deal with it a step at a time in the new year. Then slowly things will start to get better. Hope you have a great new year.
2006-12-31 09:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my bf of 4 yrs dumped me by text on the 30 of november i gave him everything he ever wanted including two kids i still love him and since i've been very deppressed and havent stoped crying so if you get any good advice please let me know oh and i'll be alone tonite coz all my freinds decided to go away for new years
2006-12-31 12:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by gunner n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be down,a new year start so U'll start with a new boyfriend.But 4 years it's a long time,U did share so many things with him .That boy is suck,Don't think about him anymore,U worth better.
2006-12-31 09:52:39 · answer #11 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋