A guy I know not IM friend I think cares fir me but I am not sure how much. I gave him a lot of drama and he always forgave me an told me he could never be angry with me. He knows that I have a BF but now I have left my BF because he pushed me down the stairs and I cant walk well for a month so I told the new guy this and that he couldn't caontact me for a month but everyday I send him text messages telling him I care him I miss you..etc..I told him that My XBF left because I am scared but I didn't say so clearly he gone forever. Anyway today he waited online all day I said hello but he didn't answer but it off and on showed he is idle he is doing his 2 year military service..(we are both in Asia) before all the drama he did come on line and talk a little..I'm not clear about his situation but if he has the time he will come online...I think he is scared to talk to me..maybe he doesn't want more or I don't know..what he is thinking..I do think he does care some
2006-12-31 01:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by canihavelikethat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because his cellphone is always on..before it was off..but how much and what he wants I don't know. Maybe he thinks i just want to be friends..who knows..
2006-12-31 01:41:52 · update #1
To make your long story short - just ask him.
I have re-read your question. You said he is in the army
for two years and you talk to him on-line. And he has not really
said anything much about his feelings for you - maybe because
he is in the army and maybe his buddies are nearby and watching
him, he can't say what he would like too. Don't pressure him
into telling you sweet things over the Internet. It's tough to be
in the army and he has no freedom of what he wants to do.
If you want him to talk more to you - ask him how the life of a soldier is working out for him, what he does and if he and his fellow soldiers get along.
About the training exercises, the food. In general what is it like to be a soldier. You have to show him you are interested in the things he does and how he feels. If he sees, that not everything is about you and that you would like to spend more time with him when he gets home, than maybe he will loosen up and has someone to come home to, when his 2 year stint is up.
Good luck and i hope everything will work out for you two.
2006-12-31 01:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said you gave him lots of drama and he remained your friend so you know he has to care to some extent. It sounds to me like he is getting mixed signals from you so he probably doesn't know where he stands or what he can, can't, or should say. It seems you care about what he thinks so if you do get ahold of him you both should try to be upfront and clear about what you want from each other. And if you're not sure, ask.
2006-12-31 01:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by armageddonbutterfly82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You do have a lot of drama in your life. I think that you should keep on reminding him that you really care for him and that you really want to talk to him. Guys need to feel bigger, so girls give them that feeling by saying "Honey, I'm not strong enough, can you open this jar?" even though you know you can, it just helps guys for some reason. Or you can ask him in an curiously innocent sad voice and maybe tilt your head to one side "Why aren't you talking to me?" or "What's going on? You weren't like this when we met." Or something to that effect.
P.S. I hope you feel better soon. :)
2006-12-31 01:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cares but is not wanting to become involved as long as u are with the other man, if u want him u have to end it with the other one. he may be busy working, and just not gotten around to contacting u. end it with the one who abused u, stay away from people who hurt u, as u weren't created to be abused.
2006-12-31 01:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time he knows you went through a hard time and he is giving you some space. If it is ment to be it will happen.
2006-12-31 01:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be such a drama queen and get on with life--no one is forcing you to do anything. Get your number changed.
2006-12-31 02:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree wit the first answer, you've asked this like 10 times before...sheeesh...
2006-12-31 01:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he want to be your good friend, I'm Sure.
2006-12-31 01:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who give a rats anus anyway.
2006-12-31 01:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are crazy
2006-12-31 01:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋