Im in a wheel chair, and I like this girl where I work, she can walk and is hot, on Holloween she broke up with her BF so then I bought her a bottle of Champaigne and I thought Id ask her if she would like to spend NYE together, I rang her on NYE morning and she said she hadnt made up her mind so I rang her again that afternoon, she then told me she wants to just download Itunes for a while and then go to bed.
Should I forget about this girl, or give her time? and in a month or 2 ask her out again?
2006-12-31 01:39:12 · 15 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i give her the bottle of champaigne she was real quick to give me her number
2006-12-31 01:53:51 · update #1
yeah forget about her, shes making fake excuses, i bet you she is partying like no other tonight and not downloading music
2006-12-31 01:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by batts1030 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her how you feel about her. Ask her if it just because you are in a wheel chair, or is really not read for it. Yell her you will understand whatever way she goes. You can't push somebody, but do give her time. Sometimes, that will only bring people closer. Send flowers (Not too nice, not roses, to romatic. More like roses!) Good luck in it!
2006-12-31 09:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by energzerbnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Also the fact your in a wheel chair isn't really relevant. Giving her 1-2 months would be a good idea.
2006-12-31 09:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Donovan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you just jumped the gun, asking her out too quickly after she broke up with her bf. just be patient and give her some time to get over him and just be a casual friend to her right now, you don't want to come on too strong or you'll scare her away. as we all know we need time to get over relationships before we can get on with a new one. if you can just be nice, say hi how are you today, your looking nice today, you know. but only little things at first and then go back to work so as to not look like your stalking her, haha. she will have time to think about things and appriciate that your respecting her feelings. then when she feels better i'm sure you'll know about it!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-31 09:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think the girl doesn't want to spend time with you. Whether you are in a wheel chair has nothing to do with it. She just probably not interested, that's all.
2006-12-31 09:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask her again, let her contact you. If she was interested then she would contact you. Dont give up your self respect for her. She's got the ball, so let her play the game. Dont act all desperate or anything, please. I know you are probably freaking out, but it will all be okay, either way. Just dont loose your dignity over it.
2006-12-31 09:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ask her once more ...but three strikes and your out!..well shes out...if she gives you the run around for the 3rd time...give up! she is not interested and just probably doesnt know how to say it...plus you dont want to waste your time on something that wont happen.....but give her time and dont pressure her or youll for sure get a no....good luck! happy new year!
2006-12-31 09:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. The wheelchair might be weird/awkward for her. I do believe that there's someone who'll appreciate you, though. After all, some women marry guys who are in prison convicted of murder and worse.
2006-12-31 09:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows you'd like to take her out. Forget about it and let her make the next move, IF there is a next move to be made.
2006-12-31 09:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she just broke up with him dont ask her out give her some time to settle down and if she broke up with him a wile back then if you llike her go for it but be careful you could get your feelings hurt
2006-12-31 09:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋